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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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You may not think that hon nor realise it but you are very much someone to look up too @outlander

I know I don't know you in real life and that this is just via a forum, but you are a kind, considerate and remarkable young lady. The care you put into others shows how much you care for others.

I know how hard it is to believe in ourselves. I also know that very often we cannot see any positive qualities within ourselves. It is much easier to see those qualities in others.

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thanks @Snowie
i just want the best for people esp those close to me.

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I think a lot of us do hon @outlander

Just shows me how much you care for your sisters.

Have you got anything planned for dinner at all?

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no, no real plans for tea @Snowie not really hungry yet. pop has some things here so he can have them when hes ready too

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Thats ok @outlander

Trying to keep some normality and make dinner most nights.

Have made it already so the kids just have to heat it up. Nice and easy for them.

Watching the road race from the Olympics at the moment.

Cold and raining outside.

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its windy and cold here but no rain @Snowie suppose to be like 100k wind gusts tomorrow

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It is windy here too @outlander

I hope the wind isn't too bad there tomorrow.

I think another day of being on the couch is likely for me!! Not much else I can do.

Do you have a lot of studying to do?

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i do have abit of study but its kinda self paced as long as i get at least once module done a month @Snowie

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Sometimes that is harder hon @outlander You have to try and keep on top of it yourself.

Watching the dressage now, and the dog is barking at the horses on the tv!

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yeah @Snowie
i may have got my sister another job thats more well paid, has more female staff and most are actually her age as well so im hoping it works out. itll help her make friends and be around people her age

oh is it still on?
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