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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Yes it is still on @outlander

Think the dog has given up on the tv however!

Thats good if she has a new job that is more well paid and around people her own age.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im watching now
i wish i could ride like that @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Would be nice too @outlander

They are certainly very clever both the rider and the horse.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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When i was riding at a higher level i could do some of those moved like extensions and side passes but no where near what they do @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That sounds great @outlander that you could do some of those things.

Was going to make scones today but didn't get around to it.

Will be on the agenda for tomorrow

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i had a few people back then that had well trained horses so i could do it. theres no way i coudlve done that on my own horse. i was more known as a roughie back then. the faster the better! the more of a challange the more it had the adrenaline pumping. use to ride ex race horses when i was 12 cause of it

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like you were an adrenaline junkie hon @outlander 😁😁

It's great that you can still be involved in horses now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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was lol @Snowie not now!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Will say goodnight hon @outlander

Time for me to go to bed.

Thanks for the chat this afternoon and tonight. It has been so nice catching up with you sis.

Take care of you and I hope you get your negative result tomorrow.

Love you 💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie has been nice to jsut chat. feels like ages!
apaprently they can still ring up to midnight! so who knows might even have results tonight but i wont hold my breathe
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