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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 4:48 pm AEST

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yeah @Snowie

gosh my throat hurts atm. i was hoping it would go away overnight!

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 4:52 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear your throat is hurting hon @outlander

Is that why you went and got tested?

I am sure you have already tried things to help your throat.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 4:55 pm AEST

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yeah @Snowie it has me paranoid cause theres a few cases in my area now and have frequented shops id usually do my shopping etc in.

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 4:58 pm AEST

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It is hard when that happens @outlander

Another student tested positive yesterday from the kids school so still a bit worried here too.

I am sure everything will come back ok hon. You have been doing the right thing by staying at home as much as possible.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 5:03 pm AEST

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im sure it will @Snowie would def like confirmation though

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 5:08 pm AEST

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i feel guilty @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 5:19 pm AEST

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Why do you feel guilty hon @outlander ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 5:21 pm AEST

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that my sister doesnt seem to have many friends @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 5:23 pm AEST

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How is that your fault hon @outlander ?

Why do you feel guilty?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2021, 5:25 pm AEST

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i know its not really my fault but i just feel bad. i know usually you make more friends outside of school but she can be a difficult character sometimes. she doesnt seem to make friends to easy or not good friends.

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