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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Least it will mean I can go to the supermarket @outlander!!

Have you got much planned for today sweetheart?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah thats true @Snowie

no no plans for today or tomorrow, have to be in isolation till i get my results back so i plan on just studying for now

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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We can be in isolation together hon @outlander

Not doing much either, just watching some of the olympics.

Was going to make some scones later too.

I hope the studying goes ok. Is someone else doing the horses for you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im hoping to watch some of the equestrian olympics that are on tonight but no biggie if i dont.

the weekends are usually abit quieter thankfully. ive let the 3 owners know that i would normally do that i wont be there today and tomorrow. cause its cold and windy they dont need so many rug changes etc either so their owners can just go feed or leave them for one day so its ok. the weekdays are usually harder though so im hoping i get results back tomorrow

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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this topic of my studies is so hard though!!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats good that the horses will be ok hon. I am sure they can go 1 or 2 days without food anyway.

Hopefully you get the results back tomorrow @outlander Ours and the kids took less then 24 hours to come back to us.

I like watching the equestrian on tv too, especially the show jumping. Amazing how high some of those jumps are and what those horses can do. They are trained so well.

Watching some gymnastics at the moment.

Hopefully your studies get a bit easier for you as you get more into them. I hope you are enjoying it however.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah theyll live @Snowie my sisters doing our horses for me today and tomorrow cause theyre easy as well so im not worried about it. could do with a break anyway.
i prefer dressage esp the ones to music.

we are watching the ant bully atm. so boring but nothing else on atm.

studies will get harder but i think it depends on the topic. some are hard but cause im interested in them its more better. this topic is hard and not really interesting so kinda dragging out alot

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Dressage is good too @outlander Again amazing what they can train the horses to do.

Glad your sister is doing the horses, one less thing for you to worry about.

I hope more of the topics become interesting for you hon. It is easier when we like what we are studying. I am sure you will do fine however.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah @Snowie im sure itll improve
covids making things so boring though and unmotivating sitting and studying all day

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It is hard to get motivated hon @outlander I can totally understand that.

Especially when we cannot get out of the house and are just stuck inside all day.

Today I had a shower and got dressed which feels like a big accomplishment.

Havent moved from the couch however!!

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