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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 5:11 pm AEST

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its so strange seeing the schools so quiet @Snowie i drive past a few different schools everyday and its so quiet! im sure the neighbours around the shcools are enjoying less traffic and noise though!

yeah. i dont know. i can just feel myself getting lower. dont really know why just am i guess

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 5:17 pm AEST

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Sometimes we don't know why we get down @outlander I can understand that.

Spoke to my psych today about my mood going down and my thoughts increasing.

Sometimes it just happens and we are powerless to stop it. We just have to try and find ways to keep on top of it, even though that can be really hard to do too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 5:33 pm AEST

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yeah thats true @Snowie
my emotions and moods are really all over the place lately.

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 5:41 pm AEST

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It seems like you have a good handle on it hon @outlander

You know that your emotions and moods are all over the place. I guess it is just doing something about it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 5:45 pm AEST

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the problem is that nothing seems to help anymore @Snowie nothing helps or makes it better. things makes it worse but i cant find anything anymore that helps

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 5:50 pm AEST

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Sorry that you cannot find anything that helps hon @outlander That must make things feel even harder to deal with.

Is there anything we can do to help you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 6:01 pm AEST

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im not sure @Snowie
its just a difficult phase i guess

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 6:05 pm AEST

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Well we are here with you and for you @outlander if you do need anything.

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 6:17 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie im glad to have you and others here

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SnowieSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 7:12 pm AEST

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Will always be here for you hon @outlander You are super important to me 💗

Will say goodnight hon, have a web seminar to listen to through my kids school.

Talk tomorrow 💌💌

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