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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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not really @Snowie already doing everything i guess. theres not really else i can do.

yeah its not ideal them having to stay home and do work online but at least can still speak with teachers. similar to online tafe courses i suppose!

im only doing the washing like once a week mostly for towels and essential items. cause of the rains we had last week heaps of my tights were muddy so couldnt rewear them for an extra day or 2 like i normally would with my paddock tights

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Just remember that we are here for you hon @outlander no matter what you are going through.

It is similar to online tafe courses. They are both on lunch break at the moment so feeding themselves. Love that they are old enough to do that too!!

Hopefully you get all your washing done today hon. Mine is all done, dryed, ironed and put away. At least for today it is!!

Will be back online later. Have psych appt. starting soon so better get ready for that. Still going to do it in my pj's 🤣🤣

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie

lol yes! its good theyre old enough to make things themselves now

mines all hanging on the line now. hopefully will be dry before it starts to get dark and cold!

well even if it was on zoom youd only need a regular tshirt on. you can see what else your wearing through a computer screen at the table 😏

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hehe @outlander I just put a jumper on and brushed my hair for my appointment. Kept the bottom half in pj's!!

Just went and got a covid test also. Should get the result tomorrow.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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lol @Snowie who needs to get dressed anyway!

oh good hopefully its still negative.
youll prob have to get one on day 12 or 13 as well

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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lol @outlander no need to get dressed!! Might have another pj day tomorrow. Not as if I can go out anyway.

Yes we will all have to get tested on day 13 too. Luckily when I went there were not many people there so it didn't take too long.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hopefully there wont be to many there the next time either @Snowie
im surprised they actually let you go to a drive through to get tested and not bring someone to you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That is the only reason we are allowed out of the house @outlander is to get tested.

I live in a small town so hoping next time there isn't a line either.

Have you got much planned for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh ok @Snowie at least you got out for like a very short time then. im sure youse had to wear masks and have windows up etc but different sight to 4 walls!

um not sure on plans. i was going to ride early but im lacking energy and just dont really feel up for it atm. havent really been in a good mood all day so not sure if thats part of it

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Yeah got out for a short time @outlander

Went at 3 too when schools were meant to be getting out. It was so quiet around the schools I went past. So not just our school shut down.

It is sometimes hard to find the energy to do things hon. I'm sorry you haven't been in a great mood all day. Around if you need to talk about anything sweetie 💗

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