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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor19 July 2021, 7:17 pm AEST

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@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 July 2021, 9:17 am AEST

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Good morning my sis @outlander

Wishing you a good day today.

Lots of love and hugs 💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 July 2021, 7:26 pm AEST

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is anyone around atm? im not really going to well tonight

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Eve7Senior Contributor20 July 2021, 8:07 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander

I’m here hun. What’s happening?

💜💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 July 2021, 8:36 pm AEST

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just not going that well @Eve7
dont really think anyone likes me

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Eve7Senior Contributor20 July 2021, 9:00 pm AEST

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Let’s have a cuppa @outlander

I’m sorry you think no one likes you. I like you but I realise you mean irl.

I think you have many great qualities and I wish the people around you would acknowledge that.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 July 2021, 9:17 pm AEST

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I dont really think its about qualities anymore @Eve7 maybe im just one of those people other people stay away from and only interact when they need to

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Eve7Senior Contributor20 July 2021, 9:27 pm AEST

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That makes me sad that you are made to feel like that @outlander

Do you have any friends who are in your life? I think you are a person with a beautiful kindness

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 July 2021, 9:33 pm AEST

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The people who talk to me usually just nees me to do something for them @Eve7
I do try and sometimes ill br around them like riding but generally theres no convo. I just mostly potter around on my own

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Eve7Senior Contributor20 July 2021, 10:08 pm AEST

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Their loss hon @outlander They are mean and rude. You deserve so much more 💜

I am off to sleep soon as I have to be up early in the morning.

Lots of love

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