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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor09 Apr 2021, 10:19 pm AEST

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Evening lil Sis @outlander. Yes, those two cyclones that are brewing are a long way north. But we will possibly cop some rain and winds Sunday & Monday.

I've had a long, but okay day. Been in a lot of pain though and still am. Good to be home.

Saw my foster sister this afternoon. Her & her husband came up to the city. They're flying to Melbourne tonight on the red eye to see her mother in law. My foster sister is quite anxious about the trip as she's concerned she might get caught up in being quarantined on her return. They'll be back late Thursday but they always drive straight home, so I won't see her for some time now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Apr 2021, 10:27 pm AEST

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Im glad your safe, hopefully the wind and rain wont be to bad for you.

Are these your usual pains or has something happened to worsen it?

Oh im glad you got to see your foster sister, i know you quite like that. Shame you don't get to seeher more often though.

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Sans911Senior Contributor09 Apr 2021, 11:28 pm AEST

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Usual pains @outlander but I was moving some heavy furniture yesterday. With help of course.

One pain I have though has lasted all day without getting any better. It's pretty uncomfortable.

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Apr 2021, 11:33 pm AEST

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Doesnt sound very good @Sans911 would heat packs help or muscle creams or hot bath?

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Sans911Senior Contributor09 Apr 2021, 11:43 pm AEST

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Lol I don't have a bath @outlander. Sure wish I did. The long standing pain I have today is in my right breast. I've taken something already for the pain but it's made no difference at all.

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Apr 2021, 11:46 pm AEST

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Lol well id lend you mine @Sans911

Try a heat pack, usually helps with pains...

Can you take it easy tomorrow..

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 Apr 2021, 9:13 am AEST

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Good morning my sweet @outlander

Hoping today goes well for you and you got some sleep last night.

Lots of love 💟💟

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Apr 2021, 2:07 pm AEST

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@Snowie 💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 Apr 2021, 2:16 pm AEST

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Hey my sweet sis @outlander

How are you feeling today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Apr 2021, 2:34 pm AEST

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Kinda just hanging around @Snowie never thought id say im bored.

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