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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Sounds like a quiet day for you @outlander

Perhaps curl up with a book, watch a movie, have a bath, something just for you hon. I wish I was there with you so I could spoil you!

Have just cooked tea for tonight so the house smells nice 😊

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im watching a movie and crochetting now @Snowie i dont know, feels like a waste of a day tbh. Realising how different my life is compared to many others. Feel abit trapped here without a car.


Good that youve sorted tea out so early- less work tonight!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Movie and crochetting sound like a good idea hon @outlander

Where is your car?

Yes glad now that I have cooked tea early. Will be plenty of leftovers too so will be able to freeze for nights when I don't feel like cooking.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I havent had a car for a while ive been borrowing one. But now my sister has her ps she needs the car so now have to keep borrowing pops car again. Have been saving but hard when budget is already tight. Dont really have enough for my own car yet and still wasnt approved for a loan so have to wait at least 6 months now.

Oh leftovers are great. Theres not usually many of those here or not ones that last past lunch next day lol. @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It is good you have your Pops car to borrow @outlander

It is hard to save up for a car or for any loan for that matter.

Speaking of cars, have to go pick up D from work soon. Will be happy when she can drive herself, but still a long time till that happens!!

Just trying to get some motivation to do some washing and ironing, but no luck yet 😒😒

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im sure D will come of age soon enough to! Then comes the dreaded teaching a learner to drive @Snowie

I done 2 loads of washing. Cant really be bothered much though. Kinda in the im bored mood but also dont really want to do housework.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I can understand the 'I'm bored' mood but don't want to do housework @outlander

Was going to go have a bath but can't be bothered moving from the couch.

Think I might just have to watch a movie and have another cuppa.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Ive just made a cup of tea @Snowie you and anyone is welcome to join me

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Will gladly join you for a cuppa @outlander ☕💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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