outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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Unknown userMember
Re: when is it time for hospital
Don't know @outlander,if it's a good idea,hope it works out for you.👷
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
I told mum i want to talk to her tonight
Im.teying to think of how to say it gently
Im.teying to think of how to say it gently
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NikNikSenior Contributor
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Hi @outlander
I'm a little confused - isn't the plan for tonight to use your safety plan and speak with your mother tomorrow?
Do you have your safety plan handy?
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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That's good @outlander
Just remember the starting of your sentences
I FEEL..............
you are telling her how you feel - and that is perfectly normal and perfectly okay - you have come this far - keep going
We are here for you
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I cant keep holding it off @NikNik its driving me mental
It makes it worse waiting around. The more inwait the more distressed i am
It makes it worse waiting around. The more inwait the more distressed i am
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Unknown userMember
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I know you can get through this @outlander especially with the support of your therapist and everyone here. 🙂
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NikNikSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
Hi @outlander
Before you do that - can I suggest there was a reason that yourself & your psychologist agreed that would happen tomorrow?
I know the wait is hard, but if things didn't go to plan, could it cause you more distress? If you waited until tomorrow you would have more support from your psychologist to manage things if they didn't go well?
Could we look at other strategies to manage your distress for tonight?
Before you do that - can I suggest there was a reason that yourself & your psychologist agreed that would happen tomorrow?
I know the wait is hard, but if things didn't go to plan, could it cause you more distress? If you waited until tomorrow you would have more support from your psychologist to manage things if they didn't go well?
Could we look at other strategies to manage your distress for tonight?
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Unknown userMember
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I agree with @NikNik, @outlander,I question if it's a good time to do it.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Maybe take yourself off to bed early tonight @outlander, so you don't have to interact with your family, but at least it means that you have somewhere to stay tonight, and all day during daylight hours tomorrow to sort out other options if you need them.
Can you listen to music through earbuds in your room tonight, or quietly watch a movie or something, just to distract? Let your family think you are sleeping.
Can you listen to music through earbuds in your room tonight, or quietly watch a movie or something, just to distract? Let your family think you are sleeping.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
I spoke to mum
It went ok
I said a few things that i didnt want to say but it done
@NikNik can we work on some distress skills please!
It went ok
I said a few things that i didnt want to say but it done
@NikNik can we work on some distress skills please!
