when is it time for hospital

shes not very happy, shes ignoring me now and its really tense and im in a right state (need to work on distress skills, so safety plan it out!). i hope to god that things are going to go the way im hoping they will. i told her about her bf as well. it jsut blurted out.

shes going to be speaking to him about it and i told her about him yelling at me and not helping around the house and shes going to be speaking to him about helping out with the kids and not jsut me.

i had to use the words i dont want to be a mum i want to be a sister. that was one of the hardest things ive had to do fk me!

@CheerBear@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@NikNik@Former-Member@Sans911@Former-Member@Owlunar@Former-Member

My poor frazzled cyber grandgirl Claire @outlander

I know the waiting is the worst. When the conversation goes bad, which is most likely, what are you going to do, where are you going to go? Try to think those things through before you start the conversation. You are the only person who can decide when to do this, but you have very caring professional people trying to give you advice. Advice that maybe your brain just can't process right now. No-one else is in your position, no-one else has your brain processes. The light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter and I can understand the feeling of not being able to wait. Perhaps the conversation for tonight, could be merely to let your Mother know that you need to have a very serious talk with her in the morning, and letting her know that your very stressed and not feeling well right now?

My brain processes have been in an ugly place all day - anger. I hate that feeling. I think the center of my Universe is going to let me down, I think I knew it when I started a recent process with them. They're talking about quitting their job.

Whether Parent, sibling, child, friend or lover; people are just Human Beings.

Niqua

Well done @outlander for having the strength.

Do not worry if she is not happy and ignoring you, that is her problem. You said what you needed to say and that is important. Just make sure you take some self care tonight as I am sure there will be multiple emotions surface. Again, well done for having the courage and strength to speak to her.

oh yes @Former-Member soo many emotions!

i am ready for bed. maybe i should jsut go to bed

i dont think i can handle anything else now

im having alot of trouble, iknow ive done what i had to do with an ok outcome but i just feel so frazzled, overwhelmed!

@outlanderif you need to go to bed than do that hun. Do not fight it tonight. You are probably both physically and mentally exhausted and your body and mind need that rest.

ok @Former-Member i think im too tired to fight anyway. i still havent eaten anything today. that might help. a few crackers and water for the past few days is all ive had.

Yes - go to bed and keep out of the way @outlander

But well done - sure it wasn't the whole plan but how can you plan for what someone else will do

Si there is tomorrow but don't worry about that - there have been enough worries today to worry about tomorrow's - and they will be enough for tomorrow

You have done your best - I am proud of you - we are all proud of you

Your best is the most you can do - so that is wonderful - as hard as it has been

I hope you can get some sleep

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