outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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outlanderSenior Contributor
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
I am home and I hear you @outlander
This is really not good at all - and none of us are upset - just sad that this didn't work out
And this is not your fault at all - and it's not at all right
I think you need help now - I don't know what you want to do but imo it's time to leave
And you couldn't speak to your mother alone - I take it the bf was there
We are here for you Outlander - and we are sorry this has happened but we are still here for you
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@outlander
You have a great network of support on here that care about you and will talk to you, so don't think for one second that you are alone because you are not.
Break it down, just take 101-5 mins at a time. Do you need immediate help? Just concerned about you hun because I/we do care
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Hi @outlander,
I can hear that things haven't gone as you had wished for them to go today and are perhaps feeling as though things feel a bit hopeless at the moment.
I am wondering if now may be a time to try some things that you have on your safety plan?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
I know this is a bad time of day @outlander but I really think that you would be better to just leave for now - there are places that will give you emergency accommodation -
Did you get left with the kids after all this?
Is your doctor or your therapist available?
I can't imagine how you are feeling right now
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
I can hear that you can't do it anymore and really - I believe you
You have been under tremendous pressure
Just get you phone, charger, any cash you have, some water and a change of clothes and leave - we can help you look for somewhere to go after that
If that's what you want to do
Dec
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