outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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Unknown userMember
Re: when is it time for hospital
Thanks @Owlunar
I am hear @outlander, sitting right next to you as we all are. I havent got anything to do so am here hun
Big hugs are wrapped around you. You have your support on this forum. When you are ready we are here.
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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Big hugs here too
I will be reading my phone
Dec
Glad you are there @Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
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I am still here @outlander. I DO NOT want to rush you or pressure you, you don't even have to write anything, just want you to know that I am here hun
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @outlander
I'm guessing that mum was defensive and reaction were angry... she might need some time and space to cool off and process things as well.
I was wondering whether it would be useful to write down what you wanted to say, if you're feeling like you weren't able to get across what or how you meant things? Might be easier to give her a letter than talking to her, particularly if she isnt able to stay calm... BUT it also might be that she can't change... and you can only control you and your responses and decisions. Perhaps it is time to really start thinking about moving out as @Owlunar has suggested. might also be a good time to contact your therapist who encouraged you to have this conversation and let them know what's happened with that and how to handle things now... here with you
I'm guessing that mum was defensive and reaction were angry... she might need some time and space to cool off and process things as well.
I was wondering whether it would be useful to write down what you wanted to say, if you're feeling like you weren't able to get across what or how you meant things? Might be easier to give her a letter than talking to her, particularly if she isnt able to stay calm... BUT it also might be that she can't change... and you can only control you and your responses and decisions. Perhaps it is time to really start thinking about moving out as @Owlunar has suggested. might also be a good time to contact your therapist who encouraged you to have this conversation and let them know what's happened with that and how to handle things now... here with you
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Sans911Senior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
I'm here too @outlander. Just a suggestion, would it be any easier, and would your mother agree to meet together with your therapist?
Hugs lil Sis
Hugs lil Sis
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
I couldnt get what i wanted to say out. I cant make her understand. I cant explain anymore.
I just cant do it anymore.
Ive contacted my psych already and trying to get an earlier appointment then late next week
I couldnt say anything in front of her bf and then she had to go out and then the kids are at home. .
I cant catch a break anymore.
I know exactly the way shes going to react when i say i need time to myself. I know whats shes going to say when i say i dont have friends.
I hinted a few things and thought ahe would grab and engage but nope. Tried the if like to make new friends. I tried im thinking of taking up a new hobby.
She said get another horse. I said i dont want another horse because they are becoming a chore. I dont have fun anymore because i always have the kids. I thought she would engage but ahe didnt. I wanted her to engage. That was the best line i could get out. She wasnt giving me much to go on.
I cant do it anymore. There is no use trying to do this shite anymore. I knew this was going to happen ir she was going to yell at me.
I cant be here. I cant talk to anyone. I cant do anything. I just cant take it anymore.
It will never be enough. I was already at the point of distress and knowing that there is fk all i can do now its making it worse. Im over all this shite. Im not doing it anymore.
I just cant do it anymore.
Ive contacted my psych already and trying to get an earlier appointment then late next week
I couldnt say anything in front of her bf and then she had to go out and then the kids are at home. .
I cant catch a break anymore.
I know exactly the way shes going to react when i say i need time to myself. I know whats shes going to say when i say i dont have friends.
I hinted a few things and thought ahe would grab and engage but nope. Tried the if like to make new friends. I tried im thinking of taking up a new hobby.
She said get another horse. I said i dont want another horse because they are becoming a chore. I dont have fun anymore because i always have the kids. I thought she would engage but ahe didnt. I wanted her to engage. That was the best line i could get out. She wasnt giving me much to go on.
I cant do it anymore. There is no use trying to do this shite anymore. I knew this was going to happen ir she was going to yell at me.
I cant be here. I cant talk to anyone. I cant do anything. I just cant take it anymore.
It will never be enough. I was already at the point of distress and knowing that there is fk all i can do now its making it worse. Im over all this shite. Im not doing it anymore.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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💜 @outlander ..... I am around too .....
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander I'm hearing you distress & pain. I'm right beside you hun. You are surrounded by love and kindness. Cane you call KHL or SANE helplines?
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Unknown userMember
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@outlanderi am sorry things didn;t go well. I agree with @Sans911, would calling someone help
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Ijust cant @Sans911
I dont know what else to do
This was something i was willing to do but nope. Not doing it anymore
I just cant. If i take anymore hits im done. I had just that bit of hope but it went shite and i anr fix it.
I know what everyone thinks of me and including those people who were friends.
I have no one besides a damn health professional to talk to and i just dont want to. I cant do it anymore.
My gp broke me this morning and ended up the way i was after psych session.
I tried and it just doesnt work. I don't know what else i can do.
I dont know what else to do
This was something i was willing to do but nope. Not doing it anymore
I just cant. If i take anymore hits im done. I had just that bit of hope but it went shite and i anr fix it.
I know what everyone thinks of me and including those people who were friends.
I have no one besides a damn health professional to talk to and i just dont want to. I cant do it anymore.
My gp broke me this morning and ended up the way i was after psych session.
I tried and it just doesnt work. I don't know what else i can do.
