when is it time for hospital

It is not too much to ask to be comfortable in your own home

To be treated with respect

To be given your own space

To be treated decently

To be free to be honest with the ground being taken away from under your feet

A mother is a person who cares for all her children

Who does not discriminate

Who is able to make up her own mind regarding all of them without an unrelated male having so much of a say-so

To care for her children when they are ill

To give compliments when a task is well done

To thank for helping out at home when it is really more than is expected

The bf needs to keep out of the conversation

And you - you need more than you are getting - you are here so you are not a mistake - you did not have any choice in the decision so how can it be your fault

I just wish I could give you a bill of assertive rights because no one can do more than is possible

I care

Dec

You haven't let us down @outlander

You have been badly let down - and yes - ring a help-line - that is a good place to start

And I remember once I spent the night in a refuge with my daughter - I think that would be one night anyway -

Dec

Going to work for a short while is an idea @outlander

Better than where you are now anyway -

Dec