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when is it time for hospital

when is it time for hospital

when do you find its time to go to hospital?

im debating whether its the right move for me

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@outlander I guess you could go back on lighter duties. That might be possible

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is your mum home yet @outlander

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There are no light duties @Sans911 its all in when im back

@Owlunar my sisters thrive which is great. Its only me they aim their shite at

@Bubbles3 yeah she is ive just taken off in my car by myself

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Too late couldnt control it any longer
Im sorry 😞

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@outlander I really think you need to discuss this with your doctor on Thursday. I wouldn't want you to jeopardise anything with your surgery. Is an admission to hospital out of the question right now?its not unwarranted; you are super struggling to cope

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Hi @outlander

I guess your mother is home and is displeased - and that's her problem really

Because your sisters are thriving because their carer - you - is doing a terrific job caring for them and you have lasted several days caring for them when you have been stressed out and far from well

So what have you been doing - washing - so much of it - feeding your sisters - watching out for them

And you have said that if you left it would destroy your sisters - so you are not just thinking about yourself

Uh uh - you are very caring and you do a brilliant job - remember your mother said that everyone relies on you - you fill an important part of your families life - and although it's far too much for someone as young as you are to have so much responsibility

You have done brilliantly - because you have not lived up to someone else's expectations doesn't mean you are not worthwhile Outlander

Dec

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@outlander I'm sorry you felt the need to hurt yourself. Please go tend to your needs. Maybe it's time for a few days in hospital hun.

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its to late for what @outlander

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I know what the answer will be. Dont work. Wait until ive recovered.
Is it really too much to ask to have a family that doesnt destroy me. I just want to be abke to feel comfortable in my own home and i just dont.
Hospital wont change this. Something has to happen now. It cant wait any longer. I think i need to move out. Or find somewhere to stay for a few days away from here.
I have to go to surgury tomorrow. If i dont theres a chance itll continue spreading which means more treatment and id rather just get it done.
Its all cleaned up and its fine. There goes my 3 month streak which im upset about. I just dont know what else i can do thats actually possible.
@bubbles @Sans911 @Owlunar

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Oh dear @outlander

Has this relieved your feeling at all - does it feel any better

I understand if you have SHd - but this is not a good thing for you

I am really concerned I really do think that this is too hard for you and understandably so

How long before you see your doctor tomorrow?

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