when is it time for hospital

Hi @outlander

I have taken the weekend off to rest my leg but I have been watching over you as I said and I know things are not going well

What I think about your mother is not at all good - I had better not say anything except I cannot imagine anyone being as selfish as she is and let it go at that

You are doing your best for your Pop - you know more than anyone how his health is and how doing things like helping a friend with his care will affect him - you are right - you are his carer and you are behaving in the right manner

I wish you the best for your trauma session today - these sessions are not meant to be easy but yours are especially hard - I know that - and still I hope this one is more helpful that tough

And all the best tomorrow also - I will be thinking of you when you have that surgery - and I wish you the best outcome possible - I do read my phone when I am not on the computer so I will know

I think it's appalling that you have to let your paid work go so you can do your unpaid work and the amount of work you do in your home is astounding - wow - that is so much

One foot in front of the other and keep breathing Outlander - and as for those people you thought you were your friends - they never were -

You open your heart here and I bet we know your inmost thoughts so well

Thinking of you

Dec

Well said @Sans911

@outlander,don't know if I'm the best to give advice the way I feel but that "old friend" needs to go and **** ***.I had a neighbor telling me I needed to suck it up without knowing what I'd been through. Unfortunately you learn who are "friends"and mine are long gone,they are from work and I know their mouths are bigger than their hearts and I will have changed.
As for your Pop,if he enjoyed helping someone you can't stop him,but if he agreed knowing that you are right that's justified ,or if you know these people only took advantage of him.

sitting next to you @outlander