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when is it time for hospital

when is it time for hospital

when do you find its time to go to hospital?

im debating whether its the right move for me

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I know @outlander,but we all go through this,I had a thing growing into my scalp,the doctor had to do three cuts over three months to get it all.That was scary but it was five years ago now,that was like a brown patch,not a mole.You are young and identied it,at this stage all you can do is hope that's enough @outlander

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I dont know how to keep calm @Faith-and-Hope im trying but i cant. It feels like ive frozen but everything else is going by. I dont know what to do.
I know i should use it to better myself but im terrified

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Im hoping things will be ok @Former-Member i am but im scared.

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I understand @outlander,we feel so vulnerable,had a "outlander"night last night distressed at 12 30 due to having to tell someone to pull their head in and making me feel vulnerable.All you can do is try and see it as it is at this stage,and think positive,or try to.As I said everyone goes through it.At this stage just pat yourself on the back for knowing it needed checking .I had one scanned on my back six years ago and told to go back in 12 months,you are making me think I should get it checked.🐻

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Practice breathing exercises @outlander, and find something to do that helps to burn the nervous energy while you wait.

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@Former-Member the real estate here leaves me alone, and WA has quite strict tenancy laws to protect tenants. The only this is that minor repairs take months and months to get actioned. The landlord lives over East somewhere & seem to take forever to approve stuff. I live in house that's more over 80 years old, and while they have done a basic, liveable renovation, the floors are scratched, cupboards are worn, bathroom tiles cracked, etc. So even if I leave I doubt they'll be able to tell much difference.

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I dont know how to keep myself together
Ive managed some drawing and watched a movie
Listened to music and had a short walk
I cant stop shaking its hard to type
I keep having to remind myself to breathe
I need to get to work but i cant pull myself together
@Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @Sans911

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@outlander you have to go to work. You can do it. You need this distraction today. You're doing ok, really, under the circumstances. I understand it might be hard to focus at work, but it will give a chance to get out of the house and use your mind elsewhere. I'm here with you today. Im right beside you.

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I agree with @Sans911,staying at home makes you a lot worse.Go to work @outlander.Best thing you could do.

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I know @Sans911 but i cant
I cant pull my self together
I wish u were here
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