outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
Tonight's not going to be easy 😞
Good grief
Why cant i just have one night thats all i ask but nooo
Good grief
Why cant i just have one night thats all i ask but nooo
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soulSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
Hey @outlander - just read your post from earlier today and you are sounding so much more positive. Keep it up. You can do this.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
Thanks @soul
If only nights were better too hey
They arent abd im always flooded eith a geap if emotions
If only nights were better too hey
They arent abd im always flooded eith a geap if emotions
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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*with a heap of emotions
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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hey @outlander just remember all the good things you are putting in place to make your life better. No-one, but no-one can take those things away. Did you look up the link I sent you before? I think it's far safer and less traumatic for you to stay out of family arguments, even if they resort to name calling (I am well aware how easy that it for me to say that, and I am not in your position, so I understand its supper challenging. You will never change their behaviours and attitudes, so just work on you. Hugs to my lil Sis.
@Former-MemberHi hun, great to hear you got a haircut; I think it's something we neglect all too easily, and sometimes a small change can be really nice. I've not had mine cut in quite some months. And I have let myself go gry, partly because I no longer care, and I had dermatitis on my scalp, so I couldn't use colours anyway.
I am sorry to hear even though you are having a break from your mother, your not really getting that. That must sting to be treated like that. I don't see anything wrong with what you are doing, but it's a pity others can't have the same perspective.Hugs to you, sweetheart
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
No thanks for reminding me @Sans911
Yeah im trying to stay out of any arguments.
I know i should be feeling over the moon but i really dont. Its like all tye emotions i wasnt paying attention to want revenge and nights are the time they come.
I felt like the worst carer ever earlier
I was out and pop had a coughing fit and couldnt breathe. He has a throat jnfection thankfully nothing more serious. I just wish i had of been here for him right when ne needed me but i guess i cant be in 10 places at once. It would be easier if i could
Yeah im trying to stay out of any arguments.
I know i should be feeling over the moon but i really dont. Its like all tye emotions i wasnt paying attention to want revenge and nights are the time they come.
I felt like the worst carer ever earlier
I was out and pop had a coughing fit and couldnt breathe. He has a throat jnfection thankfully nothing more serious. I just wish i had of been here for him right when ne needed me but i guess i cant be in 10 places at once. It would be easier if i could
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks @outlander,@Sans911,
My mother @Sans 911 always been like that,it's her way of feeling important,she is one who is not happy unless she is whinging.Havent had a trim since April as I let it go in winter.The hairdresser was talking how she had identical twins when they were born they both had a cleft that needed operating on.
Just chill @outlander
Goodnight .
My mother @Sans 911 always been like that,it's her way of feeling important,she is one who is not happy unless she is whinging.Havent had a trim since April as I let it go in winter.The hairdresser was talking how she had identical twins when they were born they both had a cleft that needed operating on.
Just chill @outlander
Goodnight .
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Good night @Former-Member
Chill doesnt seem to be in my body or minds vocab lol
Chill doesnt seem to be in my body or minds vocab lol
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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I know you feel badly that your Pop had a coughing fit when you were out - but these things happen
The best carer in the world cannot be present 24/7 - and I had a listen to a carer in the Carers' Forum - wow - that is such hard work -
Please don't beat yourself up - you are having bad thoughts tonight - I know - you have bad nights nearly every night
Thinking..................
It seems the days are getting a bit better but at night you have less distraction and also - you have insomnia - bad mixture
Recovery is a "works-in-progress" - "two-steps-forward" - "bunch-of cliches" - I know
It's really hard and disappointing after you have had a good spell to find it sneaking back - but start again tomorrow
From here it seems as if you are having a change in attitude - other people have noticed too - so hold onto that and start again each morning
Hugs
Dec
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: when is it time for hospital
@Owlunar all i want to do is just go to sleep
Thats all i dont want tp think
I dont want to feel
I just want to sleeping
Thats all i dont want tp think
I dont want to feel
I just want to sleeping
