outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander can you perhaps ring KHL to talk it out? I'm here right now if you want to talk it over with me.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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the one person i thought id had to help me while mum is away has pulled out @Sans911@Shaz51
im ready to quit my job, pull out of my studies, call everything quits!
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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im a complete wreck right about now with stress coming out my ears and eyeballs. i cant do it anymore
im only one thing and i cant do everything
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MDTSenior Contributor
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@outlander you sound really stressed out atm and you are making rash statements. I dont intend to belittle whats going down for you but do remember your strategies. Who pulled out of helping? Why does that effect your studies?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander is there absolutely no one else? It sounds like you need to discuss with your mother. That might be a difficult conversation, but take some deep breathes and go and talk to her. She might be reasonable.
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KobeCatSenior Contributor
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Hi @outlander
KobeCat here, one of the weekend moderators ...
I just sent you an email...
Kobe
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MDTSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 is right
calm yourself first then approach
calm yourself first then approach
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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The one person who offerred to help. The one that sat with me and we organised that every arvo she would have the kids so i could do my second job.
'Oh yeah sorry i cant watch them this day or that day or this day' so far thats 3 out of the 5 days with no help. Im not counting on those days either.
I wont have time to study . Im going to quit. I cant work i cant study i cant do anything.
My mother cant help she wont be here and shes paid for all her time away.
What am i suppose to do now
What the **** am i suppose to do now
I dont want to do the coping strategies thsts not going to help me
Im a failure and nothing will change that
'Oh yeah sorry i cant watch them this day or that day or this day' so far thats 3 out of the 5 days with no help. Im not counting on those days either.
I wont have time to study . Im going to quit. I cant work i cant study i cant do anything.
My mother cant help she wont be here and shes paid for all her time away.
What am i suppose to do now
What the **** am i suppose to do now
I dont want to do the coping strategies thsts not going to help me
Im a failure and nothing will change that
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frogSenior Contributor
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@outlander your situation sounds really tough right now. You seem like the kind of person who supports others but isn't getting the support you need. I just wanted to say that you have really helped me out since I've been on the forums. Thank you. What you're dealing with sounds overwhelming. Is it possible to let one of the demands go without jettisoning everything? Thinking of you, frog.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Havent recieved email @KobeCat
