outlanderSenior Contributor
when is it time for hospital
when do you find its time to go to hospital?
im debating whether its the right move for me
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when is it time for hospital
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thank you @Ant7 and they are good enough ❤❤ thank you
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@outlander
That's why I got down yesterday,I know I needed a doctor who I felt confident in with mental health.Live in a area with little options,and been through what there is and it was hopeless.Yes I'm having one of those days where you wonder how long you can "hang in there.,and what are you doing it for?
That's why I got down yesterday,I know I needed a doctor who I felt confident in with mental health.Live in a area with little options,and been through what there is and it was hopeless.Yes I'm having one of those days where you wonder how long you can "hang in there.,and what are you doing it for?
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Dont clean too much either, except for your Pop,don't do what others are capable of doing,and you will only be taken advantage of.Use today for you as much as possible @outlander.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander morning my cyber sister. I'm so sorry you had a bad night, but I'm glad today you'll have time for a bit of rest. Don't expect to be better with just 2 days in hospital hun. That was just a brief respite. It will unfortunately take much longer than that. But you are a fighter, like me, so you will take the punches and bruises life throws at you, and you will get back up again & keep going. I hope one day all this time is a distant memory like an old faded photograph. I'll be around today if you need a sounding board. Take care xxx
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Ive only done the minor general tidy up. I done 2 loads of washing but thise friggin stairs arent fun so thats it for today. Ive just put a movie on. Im bored though im not use to having this much time to do nothing. Its strange for me and i dont know how to use it @Former-Member
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I was in there since friday and came out monday arvo @Sans911
Ive only been out for this is the second day and yesterday well im sure that was wayy to much for the first whole day being out. I dont get that rest though. My rest is hospital. I keep being told i have an easy life. Im still waiting for the easy part to come into it. Still not here.
I just dont know anymore. I dont really knoe what to do. Things are going to hit the fan when i tell people my horse is going back. Ita stressig me out.
Ive only been out for this is the second day and yesterday well im sure that was wayy to much for the first whole day being out. I dont get that rest though. My rest is hospital. I keep being told i have an easy life. Im still waiting for the easy part to come into it. Still not here.
I just dont know anymore. I dont really knoe what to do. Things are going to hit the fan when i tell people my horse is going back. Ita stressig me out.
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander I've don't think I've met anyone as young as you for some time, who is as busy as you are. It's just before 9am WA time and I'm still in bed! Yet you've done 2 loads of washing and goodness knows what else. Mind you, for most of yesterday I was pushing furniture around in my bedroom, and I did give the kitchen a good clean. But there is just me to look after; I don't have any grandparents (my mother cared for him in his later years before he went to a nursing home & then died a few years later). I definitely couldn't live with my mother for too long or we would throttle each other! So I really feel for you because at your age, you shouldn't be burdened with so many responsibilities. You should be having a little fun and enjoyment. <br><br>You are doing the right thing & sending the horse back because further treatment is futile. You sound like you know a lot about animal care, so it doesn't sound like you are doing anything wrong. If people are upset with you, that's their beef, and try not to let it worry you too much. You're a good person @outlander, you need to press play on that recording and keep listening to it until you believe it.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Im in nsw so its 11am here well just after but ive been up since well on and off all night but up and put of bed at 7 got the kids ready for school took them and then came back cleaned my pops room , our bedroom and i say our because i share with sisters and literally have nothing in there thats mine except my art box but i dont really get room for that either.
Done the dishes dried and put them away and cleaned thr lounge room.
Im just watching a movie now. Ive done my physio exercises for thr morning too.
About lunch time ish ill go and do the horses.
I feel really awkward around othet people my age becauae ive realised that i have nothing in common. I work 2 jobs and care for kids. I dont know how to interact with people my age. Kids i can and older people i can but 20yr old i cant relate to them at all.
Ive had horses since before i could walk so im pretty knowledgeable about them. And my instincts are saying to give her back and this time im going to listen to them. This is my normal state of mind i can generally think clearly in regards to horses.
yesterday during on of mine and mums arguments was arguing about this friend of mine. Saying that i listen to.much to her and how can i hang around people who dont like her etc etc They both dont like each other so i cop it from both ends really but the friend doesnt really talk about mum she would rather do the horses and general convo.
I just cant talk to anyone off here
I get told to get friends i get them and i get in trouble. I am fling to be alone for the rest of my life because im just not good enough for anyone.
I might be a good person but how can i be good when everything around me tells me im.not. i just dont get it
@Sans911
Done the dishes dried and put them away and cleaned thr lounge room.
Im just watching a movie now. Ive done my physio exercises for thr morning too.
About lunch time ish ill go and do the horses.
I feel really awkward around othet people my age becauae ive realised that i have nothing in common. I work 2 jobs and care for kids. I dont know how to interact with people my age. Kids i can and older people i can but 20yr old i cant relate to them at all.
Ive had horses since before i could walk so im pretty knowledgeable about them. And my instincts are saying to give her back and this time im going to listen to them. This is my normal state of mind i can generally think clearly in regards to horses.
yesterday during on of mine and mums arguments was arguing about this friend of mine. Saying that i listen to.much to her and how can i hang around people who dont like her etc etc They both dont like each other so i cop it from both ends really but the friend doesnt really talk about mum she would rather do the horses and general convo.
I just cant talk to anyone off here
I get told to get friends i get them and i get in trouble. I am fling to be alone for the rest of my life because im just not good enough for anyone.
I might be a good person but how can i be good when everything around me tells me im.not. i just dont get it
@Sans911
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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Hi @outlander
I have read back on your thread since yesterday and you are right - you have been your mother's slave and punching bag for your whole life and this is totally wrong
So you relate to older people, kids and animals - horses - forget about the dogs yes - I understand - I don't like dogs much either - but the mindset of a 40 yo isn't that bad - just not what you need at your age - I get it
About the dog and the stress you got from the dog the other day - smell is a very strong trigger and even a small dog is a dog and having one run at you like that would bring back memories to powerful to deal with - this is so tough - yes
And about not having had a childhood - I did - but I was also totally unprepared for adult life either - it was a case of kids don't need to know anything - but when I was 21 I was expected to know everything - and my siblings had the same thing - in a world where social media did not exist and TV was pretty poor - anyway - d'uh - I get it - you are way out of your depth with people your own age and darn - had it rough all the way - it's really hard for you to know now at your age
You must wonder how this happened but also you have not been allowed to grow through it - like instant "Outlander" - just add water - not at all fair
I'm sorry about the horse - you have done your best with this unfortunate animal - this must count somewhere in the universe - still more sorry bout that -
And about you having things easy - let me say it again - you don't - it's very hard for you and easy for people to tell you - how does one learn how to live their life with so few choices
When we are young part of growing up is making mistakes and yes - it is natural for small people to experiment - and the success or failure of such experiences is how we learn
And as for finding yourself - alas - there is no instant just add water person -
I really care Outlander
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Ant7Senior Contributor
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@outlander Please look after yourself 
