when is it time for hospital

I have never been in a relationship Dec the most close I got was this guy,never met Mr Right.Have the "Disney "illusion of wanting the fairytale,not the nightmare but always with the men that have pursued me are the nightmare,quite delusional idiots but this bloke took a bit more to work out.No I didn't write off his behavior due to his brain injury,he had "gaps"(things didn't sound right) if he mentioned last relationships or his life.Plus whatever food you offered him he was fussy,very fussy it was an uncomfortable feeling of more than just being a fussy eater.

I'd love to meet someone Dec but he doesn't exist,think he got stuck in the womb (lol),but I'm too far down with unemployment and self worth (getting distressed writing this),and I can't see a future.Just living on a lot of hopelessness and hope that isn't there.

Outlander,I knew hospital was time when I said it in the post last night for you and I for one are relieved you are going to hospital even to remove you from that situation.I know it's tough the doctor wanted me to go last year and I had to defend my reasons for not going mainly my two cats who I breathe for.

Just try and focus on you.I feel relieved knowing that you may be safe,even for a short time .💞

Thinking of you.

I have never been in a relationship Dec the most close I got was this guy,never met Mr Right.Have the "Disney "illusion of wanting the fairytale,not the nightmare but always with the men that have pursued me are the nightmare,quite delusional idiots but this bloke took a bit more to work out.No I didn't write off his behavior due to his brain injury,he had "gaps"(things didn't sound right) if he mentioned last relationships or his life.Plus whatever food you offered him he was fussy,very fussy it was an uncomfortable feeling of more than just being a fussy eater.He wasn't my type,11 years older,but he worked on me for months to give him a go and "trust him",I felt and he made me feel guilty for rejecting him.I txt him a few weeks ago after his violent outburst to tell him I won't hold any anger at him,or live in fear of him.He texted back with no remorse after several weeks.I had to google domestic violence symptoms in order to understand and as I said the symptoms such as "instant relationship" or nothing was there.Several times I just wanted to be friends-not possible.

I'd love to meet someone Dec but he doesn't exist,think he got stuck in the womb (lol),but I'm too far down with unemployment and self worth (getting distressed writing this),and I can't see a future.Just living on a lot of hopelessness and hope that isn't there.

Outlander,I knew hospital was time when I said it in the post last night for you and I for one are relieved you are going to hospital even to remove you from that situation.I know it's tough the doctor wanted me to go last year and I had to defend my reasons for not going mainly my two cats who I breathe for.

Just try and focus on you.I feel relieved knowing that you may be safe,even for a short time .💞

Thinking of you.

I hope that you find hospital gives you some relief from the intensity of everything @outlander

we are with you my friend

Sending lots of support and caring your way @outlander

We are all thinking of you @outlander - this cannot be easy for you

But I am thinking you are finally in a safe place - as unhappy as you might be about it

Most likely you don't have your phone right now - or it's gone flat

Yes - as hard as it might be to see this was bound to happen - I'm sorry in some ways it came to this - but glad in others

Dec

Hi @outlander,

I am guessing you don't have your phone with you right now, but I know you will read this some time. I know things probably feel super overwhelming and scary right now. However, given how tough things have been for you lately, I think it is a positive thing that you have been taken to the hospital. I know it might not feel like it right now, but I am hoping that this will be a turning point in your situation, in some way.

I noticed that it is exactly a month since you started this thread asking when is it time for hospital. I guess now you know - the time is now. I really hope you get good support at the hospital and that some sort of plan can be made for moving forward.

However horrible things might be right now, this time will pass. You've got this @outlander.