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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
just need to rant:
why is it that my mother gets the credit for everything i do!!! geezus! i flog my guts out every single day all day every day and she spends one day home and does the house work and she gets all the credit!!! seriously!!!!
and then she gets the craps that no one helps aorund the house and shes not going to keep cleaning the house up all the friggin time unless we start to help by jsut doing the simple things like putting out washign on the washing pile or putting dishes into the sink!!
umm excuse me!!!!!!!! take a look around seriously,
i never ever ask for anything nor for any recognition for the things i do but when that happens it gets under my skin. it really does.
wow she got up and did 3 loads of washing, the dishes and dinner wholy friggin shite!!!
hiya @Shaz51
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Anony18Senior Contributor
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello @Anony18, @outlander
I am off to bed to try and get some sleep , hope i feel better tomorrow
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outlanderSenior Contributor
good night @Shaz51 i hope your feeling better tomorrow too. sleep well
thats ok @Anony18 you dont really have to say anything. it really just gets under my skin when that happens. like seriously!
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Anony18Senior Contributor
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Oh - you are not invisible @outlander
From my end I have to actually sit in front of my computer and turn it on to see you - and sorry - I didn't
[Dec is frowning and biting nails]
But you are not invisible because I see you this morning
About your mother - you may not have heard something about housework yet so let me introduce you something most women know - Housework is something that is never noticed until it's not done - so
Don't do it - and then let your mother have the craps - sheesh - I PAID my daughter to do my housework when I was working two jobs and going to university - aw - it's your mother who has a problem with vision
So you had a little tantie and threw your stuff around - just the easy stuff - not your expensive stuff - and it sounds a bl^^dy good idea to me - I have done a bit of that in my time - it works wonders
The pain in your tummy could be your cysts in your ovary - good idea to take it easy today if you can - those things are also bl^^dy painful
Your mother - sheesh again - she doesn't know what a gem of a daughter she has
And I am sorry about that
Dec
#All we need is love, Love. Love is all we need# - Beatles
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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