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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
Welcome back, @outlander
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
Welcome back @outlander 
How are you?
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AdgeSenior Contributor
Oh hello @outlander Nice to hear from you again.
I had no idea that this was you (lil-caterpillar).
Adge
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outlanderSenior Contributor
thank you guys @Mazarita@Adge @Former-Member @oceangirl
uhh im still really nervous about being on here @oceangirl and im stressing very much about tomorrow morning as well
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outlanderSenior Contributor
thanks @Former-Member i never get sick of seeing your avatar
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
Hi again @outlander
I'm not sure why you are nervous about being on here or if something has happen to make you feel uncomfortable?.As I have read many members are happy to see you back and I am too. I was worried when you left, so its great to see you back. But more importantly that you have reached out again for support, that shows how much strength and courage you have from within.
Btw what is happening tomorrow morning, I am not sure if I should know because I mite have forgotten about what is happening for you tomorrow- can you explain more what is happening tomorrow?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
there was alot of things going on and i felt bullied @oceangirl
oh yes your only new to me 🙂 i have found a breast lump that ive been having to monitor for 2 weeks now and its spreading- my gp said it could very well be a leaking vein in there so not sure what to do about that until tomorrow morning, then theres an appointment next week as well thats very triggering for me as well but i dont want to trigger others on here atm but its to do with (SA) but one step at a time
hopefully somone will be around in the morning to push me through the doors of my gp casue i think ill be holding on with hands and feet too. im so nervous and scared to go
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
I am sorry to hear you've experienced being bullied here and I hope whatever has happen can stop.
Yes you are correct I don't know you very well. All the best for your appointment tomorrow and I hope its nothing serious @outlander ......
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outlanderSenior Contributor
omg @oceangirl that sounded such pig headed of me! that wasnt suppose to be dissmissive of you at all! shite sorry!
yes i hope its nothing serious either- its been stressing me out for a few weeks and since its expanding its got me even more worried
im tried to focus on the people that want me here rather than the negatives so im hoping itll reduce the tension abit on here and hopefully make it less uncomfortable for me being here as i quite like talking to most people on here
id love to get to know you abit more too
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