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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Mazarita @Owlunar @Former-Member @Adge @Spookytookims @CheerBear @Former-Member @Shaz51
i was lil-caterpillar
im back..... i think.....
im just treading very very lightly at the moment
but id like to let you know that i have read what you wrote on my other threads and i appreciate your kind words and for thinking of me even after i left here 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Beautiful Pictures @outlander
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
ohhhhh no @outlander, what happened xx
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hello @outlander
you are so lovely outlander to think of us.
I struggle remembering everyone so well done.
a timely message feeling very flat and weepy today which is annoying me.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Im having a chat to the owners and seeing if i can move paddocks --- good idea @outlander xx
feeling very flat and weepy today --- ohh no @Former-Member, would you like to talk about it xx
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hello @outlander @Shaz51
I just read about your experience in the paddock.
Those females are toxic. You are far better than them.
Try not to let them upset you because you are worth far more. I do know it is hard as I am a sensitive person too. I now realise though half of the stuff I used to be upset about, imagining so many people disliking me was actually all in my head. They just had their own insecurities.
We never know what another person is thinking and therefore not worth trying to guess. More important to think about what we are enjoying. So enjoy the special time with your horse and hold your head up high, relaxed smile on your face as you ride off. Dont change what you are doing for others who are not important.
You spread much joy and love on this site so remind yourself of that and be proud xx
There is a good cartoon on Jacques quotes thread I think which demonstrates what I have said above.
Check it out. I will see if I can find it again myself.
xxxx
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@Shaz51
thanks for the offer but this is enjoying time with others and dont want to dampen the spirit here.
thank you for asking xxx
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