Eden1919Senior Contributor
Safety
What do you do when you arent feeling safe but you dont want to go to the hospital and helplines arent working? Also what do you do when distractions and all of that stuff isnt working either?
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
What do you do when you arent feeling safe but you dont want to go to the hospital and helplines arent working? Also what do you do when distractions and all of that stuff isnt working either?
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
ok we can just sit for a little while @Zoe7
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Unknown userMember
Nope, still loving your posts @Zoe7 ![]()
It's hard to be in a challenging space yourself and to continue providing support for others and you are doing so tirelessly without letting on what is happening for you or perhaps the extent to how your feeling. This deserved to be acknowledged so just wanted to let you know I think your doing an amazing job ![]()
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@Eden1919 I have Toby snuggled in with me. It is really cold here still so he is helping to keep me warm. He knows when I am getting really sad also and wants to snuggle up close to my face.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Aww @Former-Member thanks. Have to look out for my buddy as @Eden1919 did for me last night
- and I'm sure others will later tonight for me - nights suck!
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@Eden1919 let me know how you are travelling when you are ready buddy ![]()
Here's a baby photo of Toby to make you smile - hopefully ![]()
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello @Eden1919 ![]()
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
Hello @Shaz51
@Zoe7 Toby is very cute. I am not traveling well at all I feel lost and so incredibly scared. I am shaking and i literally dont know what to do anymore i cant seem to calm down and i am trying not to completely loose it but i dont think i will have much luck. all i can think about is SH right now and i am trying not to but ugh i am a mess and I really am completely lost. I know i am supposed to have my appointments tomorrow but i dont see how they will help anymore if i even make it to tomorrow that is.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@Eden1919 tonight you don't even need to think about your appointments tomorrow - you don't even need to think about tomorrow - your only job for now is to get through tonight - minute by minute and hour by hour. You will make it to tomorrow because we will do it together buddy - here with you. I know sometimes it helps to just 'talk' so I am here listening to you - here for you ![]()
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CherryBombSenior Contributor
Hi @Eden1919,
I agree with @Zoe7, focus on getting through the night minute by minute.
What are some things you can do tonight? Shall we make a plan?
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Eden1919Senior Contributor
@Zoe7 thanks. I just dont know what I am trying for anymore and everything is a total mess. I WANT TO SCREAM but i cant because i am too sacred to make a noise right now. ugh i really cant take this anymore.
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