Hi everyone
@CheerBear @Queenie @Former-Member @soul @Maggie
Why haven't I seen this thread before???? 
I'm going to try and remember highlights ....because this is like a gratitude list, and lately I've been forgetting to be grateful for what I have, my circle of people,especially here in forum land who help me soo much, and what has been.
Here's my few since Monday:
Coffee and fries-always by myself cause I don't do "friends" very well, making small talk confuses and scares me- at a small cafe that is run by previously unemployed youth. Whenever I chat to the woman who came up with the idea of the shop, I am bowled over by how many people she has assisted. Last count it was 25. A few days ago she mentioned she has opened a new shop in town, and there are two other stores opening soon. She is awesome and her enthusiasm never wanes. 
Yesterday it was coffee and an individual homemade cheese cake at a coffee shop near my psychologist's. The woman who runs the shop is amazing and remembers everyone's name and what coffee they have. I am only there every two weeks but she remembers what's going on for people. Despite what's going on in her life she has a smile and a chat for everyone who walks through the door. And the cheese cakes are delicious! 