taking a break

yep got your msg @CheerBear

yes enjoy the sunshine, its raining here so good day for study which is what im doing sort of

are you sure im not @BlueBay

you dont have to be here for me, i know how hard it is so i understand if your not here

dont be silly @Former-Member LOL

of course I want to be here for you. But right now I am struggling and i am about to get in the car and try to go for a walk. i am having this internal fight about whether i should go for a walk or not.

ok, i will be back later; i haven't forgotten you 🙂

can you do some study? i don't even know what you're studying?

back soon xxoo

a walk sounds good @BlueBay pity is pouring down here again

yes im going to continue studying and im studying medical terminology

Hi @BlueBay,

Can i suggest something that might help you overcome the internal fight about going for a walk or not?

Grab a coin...make 'heads' going for a walk; make 'tails' not going for walk.

Remember you dont have to do what the coin toss tells you...

...but I can nearly gaurantee that if you toss the coin and get the side of the coin you deep-down really dont want, it is likely to help you decide exactly what you really want 🙂

hi @NotLabelDefined

what should i do, i feel so pathetic i cant even make a decision?

Hi @Former-Member,

Being here on this forum, sharing your thoughts and feelings with others, and also helping out others is something I think is certainly not pathetic at all.

We all have troubles making decisions at times. Did you try the coin trick? If that didnt work maybe try to do something else to take your mind of the decision.

Often if we engage in a totally different activity, and stop trying to make a decision/stop focussing on a percieved need to make a decision/ stop pressuring ourselves to make a decision, then the decision often works itself out 🙂

its sort of like when we forget something, and then when we are in the middle of some other unrelated activity, the answer all of a sudden pops into our head... 🙂

alright i go back to studying for a while, something might pop up while im doing that @NotLabelDefined

i like being on here i really do and i dont want to make a decsion ill regret but i really just think im a pest to everyone and not really helping out much or at all.

Hi @Former-Member,

yeah...good call, nice one 🙂

but you know what? I think you've already made the decision (please excuse me if im wrong). i say that because you said "i dont want to make a decision ill regret"

your definitely not a pest, the forum is for everyone to share their stuff, by sharing our stuff we often help ourselves and also often help others 🙂