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such a failure :(

Unknown userMember

such a failure :(

im such a failure in this life...

im never good at anything, im stupid, i stuff everything up and i screw up everyone elses life. i think that peoples lives would be better off without me and their lives would be alot easier

my mum hates me, my sisters hate me, i have no friends, i get in trouble for going out, i get in trouble for staying home, im failing as a carer, what am i doing wrong?

i dont even know who i am anymore and i deserve every bad aspect of life, im just a horrible person

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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Are you still around @Former-Member - thinking of you and hoping you are safe

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Unknown userMember

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@Zoe7 im.still here to start another torturous day 😔
I like reading many sorts of books from mystery to romance. I like baking deserts the most like cookies slices and cakes.
Im studying medical terminology

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Unknown userMember

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Yeah i love my sisters pity alot of my nightmares involves them though just like last night 😞

I cant really make a plan i jusymt do it when i can and when i feel up to it. I went a brought her a scooter yesteryear cause i felt slack

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Unknown userMember

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I couldnt really control myself last night. I ended up doing something (not in a good way) last night to take the edge of things

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Unknown userMember

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Hi there @Former-Member

It does sound like things are really overwhelming at the moment and that is making you feel out of control. It's really hard feeling that way and then doing something that takes the edge off that feeling which possibly wasn't the most helpful thing to do. But that is okay, that happens I'm just glad you got through the night, how are you feeling this morning?

Try to be kind to yourself today in the way that you are kind to your family. What do you have planned for the day that will involve being kind to yourself?

Lunar 🙂

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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@Former-Member You had a really tough night last night and I am just so pleased to see you this morning

Today is a new day and yesterday has already passed...

What are your plans for today?

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Unknown userMember

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Hi @Former-Member @Zoe7

Yeah i guess im alive if being a zombie is alive..

My day consists of my caring job sister's this arfternoon feeding clients horses while they are away and cleaning out paddocks and taking care of my sisters horse and studying

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Unknown userMember

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My anxiety is sky high today and not feeling so well but if i dont do it then nonone else will

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Unknown userMember

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Oh wow horses! That is so brave that you work with them, I am so scared of horses! I wish I could be calm around them but they just pick up my fear straight away and become jumpy which increases my fear even more

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Unknown userMember

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Yeah ive always been good with them i was ridin before i could walk. Horses arent everyone's thing but doesnt matter. Atm i dont really know if i like them. I think it just my low mood i hope
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