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such a failure :(

Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 9:09 pm AEDT

such a failure :(

im such a failure in this life...

im never good at anything, im stupid, i stuff everything up and i screw up everyone elses life. i think that peoples lives would be better off without me and their lives would be alot easier

my mum hates me, my sisters hate me, i have no friends, i get in trouble for going out, i get in trouble for staying home, im failing as a carer, what am i doing wrong?

i dont even know who i am anymore and i deserve every bad aspect of life, im just a horrible person

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Phoenix_RisingSenior Contributor09 Mar 2017, 10:20 pm AEDT

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I'm going to head off to bed now @Former-Member. I'm a bit worn out from surfing a giant wave of suicidal ideation all afternoon. Happily some nice folk around here sat with me while I surfed the wave and it passed. They always do pass you know - those giant waves. The trick is to just be still and let them wash over you. I can hear how exhausted and overwhelmed you are feeling tonight. I can hear how much you want to give up. It's ok to feel that way. I don't know where you are, but where I am it is getting late and the day is nearly done. Tomorrow will be a brand new one. Maybe if you aren't busy tomorrow night you might like to come and hang out on the Friday Feast thread? It is the highlight of my week. It would be super nice to see you there. I hope you are able to get some sleep tonight @Former-Member, and try to remember, you have a 20-year perfect track record of surviving every single day. I know you can survive this one to. Night.

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:22 pm AEDT

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@Phoenix_Rising ❤️ that last post gave me goosebumps. Sleep well

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:23 pm AEDT

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@Former-Member
I dont see getting over it quite the same as you. When i get told to get over it and i know wgen said by specific people that it means grow up and just deal with it.
I think ive grown up enough. People have thought i have the brains and knowledge and wisdom of someone in their late thirties hmmm i wonder why that is hey

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:25 pm AEDT

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Sounds really tough @Former-Member. Thinking of you and hoping things feel more ok for you soon.

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:30 pm AEDT

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@Phoenix_Rising very clever analagy you just used

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:31 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Former-Member
Though i dont know why

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:33 pm AEDT

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@Zoe7
Im not really sure why im not worthy of it but thanks...
I guess i like baking uhhh...studying sometimes uhhhh reading occassionally

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:36 pm AEDT

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Ive been so slack lately. I havent even taken my sisters on their bike ride nor have i been teaching my sister to ride a 2 wheel bike like i promised some sister i am

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Zoe7Senior Contributor09 Mar 2017, 10:38 pm AEDT

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What do you like reading and baking @Former-Member and what are you studying?

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Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 10:47 pm AEDT

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Hi @Former-Member

Sounds like you love your lil sister! How exciting getting to teach her how to ride a two wheeler! I remember my lil boy starting! He took off so quickly on his own (a daredevel sigh!).

I think it's great that you want to teach her! Is it something that you can can make a plan for? sometimes making a plan helps! But plans can also change 🙂 Try not to be too hard on yourself!

I promised my kids that we'd go for a walk with the dog after school tonight, but then had to meet with someone unexpectedly... there were tears sigh! but mostly I get it right and they are loved! so i have to let go of the things that i dont get right 🙂

hugs

lj

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