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such a failure :(

Unknown userMember09 Mar 2017, 9:09 pm AEDT

such a failure :(

im such a failure in this life...

im never good at anything, im stupid, i stuff everything up and i screw up everyone elses life. i think that peoples lives would be better off without me and their lives would be alot easier

my mum hates me, my sisters hate me, i have no friends, i get in trouble for going out, i get in trouble for staying home, im failing as a carer, what am i doing wrong?

i dont even know who i am anymore and i deserve every bad aspect of life, im just a horrible person

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Unknown userMember11 Mar 2017, 2:50 pm AEDT

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thanks @Former-Member

im really trying to @Faith-and-Hope its just abit hard that ive been triggered a few times today (not through the forums) and its taking its toll on me. and being busy isnt helping at all

hi @utopia

sounds like an interesting book. i havent really been able to study today, hopefully ill get a chance tonight. ive only got 8 weeks until i go for the exam and i was nervous about from since enrolment

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utopiaSenior Contributor11 Mar 2017, 3:05 pm AEDT

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@Former-Member. Distractions may be needed today.
1 - take your sister for that bike riding lesson
2 - go to the library - a quiet corner & study for an hr
3 - find a park, a creek , a tree & focus on that and breathe. Notice how it smells - perfume flowers / eucalypt trees. Can you see the wind blowing through the trees or the grass? What animals or insects do you notice.
Doing this for 15 minutes - once or twice a day - can really help you relax and take the focus off any anxiety.
Sometimes you have to push yourself to start - but once you're there - you will feel calmer and more energised.

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Unknown userMember11 Mar 2017, 3:29 pm AEDT

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ive taken her for a bike riding lesson today and let her ride her scooter,( just abit peaceful with my other sister at her friends house), took her out for lunch, got all the washing and house work done, done some craft ( made crafty paper planes and fans). @utopia

ATM im listening to music and doing abit more cleaning while my sisters watching a movie

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utopiaSenior Contributor11 Mar 2017, 3:42 pm AEDT

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Music can be really helpful @Former-Member. I'm a fair bit older than you. So chances are our music tastes will differ.
I like the Eagles and Bob Seager. Australian 80's rock. Love a singer called Cecilia - she's a Norwegian Opera singer - but has produced 2 albums - self titled & Violet 19 that I just love.
What are you currently listening too?

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Unknown userMember11 Mar 2017, 4:40 pm AEDT

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Yeah our tastes are different @utopia
Im more listening to the modern pop music and evanescence 🙂

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Unknown userMember02 Apr 2017, 10:48 am AEST

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Still the same 😞
When will it end

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