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That's okay! You're allowed to share/delete whatever feels right for you. @Till23 💛

I am going to catch up on your thread tomorrow (I finish now), and then we can chat about how I can best support you? ☺️

Hey @Till23 , I've been reading along the last few days but not posting because I haven't felt I've known what else to add and don't want to waste your time with tagging you without something more than a "support" (thankfully that button has been working though!)

Noting also what you've just said about non-small-talk, but also about the preference for deeper conversational connections... if you would ever like to start a discussion topic for deeper non-personal conversation (e.g. philosophy, or a research topic, etc) I would enjoy that and happily join in if you were seeking that as a more interesting social discussion. (I'd suggest politics, but I know for a lot of people that's very emotional-provoking and could get messy. But I find political perspectives/theories interesting to learn about - whether I personally prioritise the same things as the person I'm chatting with or not. I guess because I am not "set" on politics and evolve my thoughts as I learn more and as society & events change...)

I want to ensure I am still able to be a positive and supportive presence for you as much as you'd like me to be, but also in the way that you need and only to the degree you want it. I guess I am not sure currently how I can be that, but know that I am here following along and care and open to direction. 🤗

I hope you have a good rest of your evening @AuntGlow

I'm not sure that's a good use of your time

Hi @AlwaysMyself I hope you are well, I think you are now on a break from work. Sorry I can't remember your last day at work. I hope you are feeling a bit of calmness now, without work related stressors.

Thank you for your support, which I have really appreciated..

I don't want attempting to engage with me to be a new stressor. .

I understand it's difficult to know what to say, but I see the support and I don't want you to feel you have to say anything. I appreciate that you are there, but your time may well be better spent engaging with other people, which you do so well.

Thank you for offering to have discussions with me, I also really appreciate that and the fact you have specifically reached out to offer that.

Currently I don't feel as though I can really engage in discussions much and I feel that would be a diservice to you if I half-heartedly engage.

I hope you have some great chats with other people. You are very supportive and I can see you really try to do your best and your best is excellent. Remember to look after yourself though

Thanks @Till23 😊, 3 more days to go - final day is Wednesday. Counting down. Feeling a bit better tonight, perhaps for the extra rest I have had over the weekend. I shall be going to bed though I think now, as I do need to be up for work at 630.

You are not a stress to me at all 😊. I just try to adapt to what a person does or does not want. My virtual door is always open to you, whilst also respecting your right to solitude too. You are no "less worth" chatting to or supporting, as long as it is what you want.

Hope you sleep well tonight, and feel energised/motivated for the day in the morning. Hope you also remember to look after yourself; I will try to also. 😊

You are enough as you are. Because you are human. Everything more is a 'bonus' you give to people. 🤗

Thanks @AlwaysMyself I hope you have a lovely rest and a good third last day.

I understand I was up at 3.30am to go to a comp today! So I've been up for a while and quite tired now.

Hey @Till23, just wanted to drop by and ask how training went? It sounds like it was an early one for you.

I hope you have been able to rest since 🙏 What’s on for your week ahead?

Hope you have a easier week this week 😊 @Till23

Hi @Chasingsunsets I went to a competition on the weekend and I had to drive a bit to get there. I wouldn't be getting up that early for training!

Hope you had a lovely weekend and a nice week coming up this week.

Hi @Shaz51 I hope you definitely have a better week this week. I hope Mr Shaz gets some sleep, which will also mean you can worry less and get more sleep yourself.