Thanks @Shaz51 for all the non-stop, open support that you give to everyone on the forums. I'm not sure, but I think you may be doing this on a completely voluntary basis. Anyhow you are the real star of the forums. You are open and accepting of everyone, posting lots of social threads, birthdays, messages of support and sunny chat and positive attitude. You deserve so many accolades.
There are problems with the forums, such as the triage system, the uneven distribution of PSWs - where some members have lots of interactions, while other members who may be in as much distress languish. You just post where you see people posting and that means that some of the "missed" people get some interaction.
You were one of the first people I chatted to an the forums, so it's kind of fitting that you'll probably be the last. It's been an hounour chatting to you.
I wish you all the best with caring for your husband and family and with all your own health problems. I wish you all the best.