TheVorticonSenior Contributor
Angry and alone
Hi. I know I should write some sort of intro but just don't really know what there is to say.
I'm feeling angry and alone and like there's no one who cares.
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Angry and alone
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utopiaSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
Hi @TheVorticon. That would be hard for me - if I felt I wasn't wanted.
I know I'm only one person - but I enjoy our chats on the forum. And I think it's good to have a diverse range of both MI & general experiences represented here.
You are not alone
I know I'm only one person - but I enjoy our chats on the forum. And I think it's good to have a diverse range of both MI & general experiences represented here.
You are not alone
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
Thanks @utopia. I dunno what I'll be doing. Obviously I can't get much support here if I "be myself" when I'm feeling upset - there's so few people who are able to deal with me which just leads me to being more upset than I was to begin with. And then some more people might reply but by then I've got myself way too far into a mess to respond. I don't have other support, but this is not a good cycle or a safe cycle to get myself into. Where it seems like things have to get past boiling point before anyone notices that I exist and by then it's too late. I want to be able to offer support to others to. I can in certain situations about certain things. But not while I'm like this.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
Then why don't you look up my threads @TheVorticon. You can respond to my posts. Or to someone going through similar things to you - or with similar diagnosis - or someone who is into the same interests as you.
I guarantee if you put a new thread up asking for people who are into Pokemon or computer games etc - you will get replies. Maybe they are waiting for someone to start that thread. Once they start getting to know you - they will like you. I do. And I think you have a lot to offer this forum. And there are some fellas on here who would like to connect to other guys with MI.
Just start a new thread. I'll be sure to pop in and read it.
I guarantee if you put a new thread up asking for people who are into Pokemon or computer games etc - you will get replies. Maybe they are waiting for someone to start that thread. Once they start getting to know you - they will like you. I do. And I think you have a lot to offer this forum. And there are some fellas on here who would like to connect to other guys with MI.
Just start a new thread. I'll be sure to pop in and read it.
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
I've tried reading other threads with the intent to respond supportively but I just can't get past my own hurt feelings to be of much help to anyone at all at the moment. And it seems like I'm stuck with those feelings in that cycle.
I haven't really been in the mood for 'fun' threads like that, certainly don't have the energy to start one and keep up with it or conversely deal with zero responses.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
You are assuming there would be zero responses @TheVorticon. I believe there would be responses and interest in that thread. But it has to be when you're ready.
Have you ever read some of the new members on 'Introduce Yourself' - where they say why they have come to the forum and 3 things about themselves. Some are quite interesting. Some I can easily respond to. I might have a similar interest or diagnosis or I like the name they use here.
How did work go this week? Were you as busy as you usually are? Anything good or exciting happening with your work?
Have you been out to the park this week looking for Pokemons? Or doing something else you like?
Have you ever read some of the new members on 'Introduce Yourself' - where they say why they have come to the forum and 3 things about themselves. Some are quite interesting. Some I can easily respond to. I might have a similar interest or diagnosis or I like the name they use here.
How did work go this week? Were you as busy as you usually are? Anything good or exciting happening with your work?
Have you been out to the park this week looking for Pokemons? Or doing something else you like?
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utopiaSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
And sometimes @TheVorticon - supporting someone on a post - could be as simple as saying, "Hi. I understand how you feel".
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
@TheVorticon you are very welcome to sit with us in The Octagonal Room in the 'Am Not Coping' thread anytime.You don't even need to respond - we have a lot of people who just drop in to say hi or to read along with us. Anyone is welcome - we try to make it a safe place to talk, chat or just BE. Would love to see you in there!
Zoe
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
I need to go spin a pokestop today to keep my streak, but it's bloody storming and kkldfslkmfa9p05342jklfd pissed off
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
Oh no @TheVorticon what are you going to do????
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
Re: Angry and alone
Still probably gonna go out. I don't want to break my streak and it's a stupid reason to break it. I should've done it before it got bad but obviously I didn't. I need to check my garage to make sure stuff isn't going to get water damage so what's it matter if I go a few blocks away too
