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Does anyone here believe they are destined to not being in a relationship? I feel this way a lot as I feel like I’m not a desirable person.
I’ve worked hard to be content and satisfied in life but I feel like that’s just gaslighting myself to think that’s what I need to be accepted.
I feel so sad
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Unknown userMember
Okay I am absolutely done. I cannot understand or work out how to socialise with anyone anymore.
I have had enough. What am I doing wrong? I genuinely do not understand how I cannot make any headway with anyone.
I met someone on a neurodivergent app and we went out today and had a great time. We talked for hours and had a lot of conversations about all kinds of things and laughed about a lot of things. It seemed to go well.
Then, after we parted ways, she sent me a message later asking if I had a good time. I stated that I did and why I thought I did and repeated the question back. She said that "it was okay but she didn't see anything going further".
Even in the neurodivergent community I am a loser. Even in the neurodivergent community I am misunderstood. I cannot escape it. I hate my life so much. I hate this planet so much. I cant live anymore. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? WHY DO I GET SO EASILY REJECTED?
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Unknown userMember
I hate being weird, I hate being neurodivergent, I hate having a mental illness.
I wish I was neurotypical so I could make friends easily and not be so exhausted or overwhelmed all the time. My life sucks and it is absolutely atrocious. No matter what community I am in, I will be rejected because I am the ugliest human that has ever lived.
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JynxModerator
I'm so sorry to hear that this has happened @Former-Member I can only imagine how defeated you might be feeling right now. Yeah wish I was NT too sometimes, maybe then I wouldn't be swimming in so much shame, hey.
Unfortunately I can't stay long to chat, but I just want you to know I hear you, and I offer some hugs and comfort, for whatever they're worth 💜
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Unknown userMember
@Jynx
I deserve to be forgotten. I deserve to be abandoned and lost to the sands of time.
I feel nothing.
I am nothing.
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RiverSealModerator
Hey @Former-Member, sorry to hear that you are feeling like this. It sounds like a tough spot to be in at the moment. What do you think you can do to get through these feelings today? I encourage you to stay connected on the Forums and reach out to crisis support if you need a little extra support today. RiverSeal
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Unknown userMember
@RiverSeal
there is nothing that can done yesterday destroyed me I hate myself so much
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Unknown userMember
I hate valentines day so much, its so crap.
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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor
Hate is a strong word. But I guess you’re entitled to your own likes and dislikes and you have your reasons.
Sorry u Hate it.
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Unknown userMember
@BPDSurvivor
It is a strong word but it is an accurate description of how I feel about it. Based on my complete lack of success or experience in dating, I hate it so much
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Unknown userMember
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