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Does anyone here believe they are destined to not being in a relationship? I feel this way a lot as I feel like I’m not a desirable person.
I’ve worked hard to be content and satisfied in life but I feel like that’s just gaslighting myself to think that’s what I need to be accepted.
I feel so sad
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tymeModerator
I recognise that your idea of 'success' is very different to mine @Former-Member . So hence I'm going with your definition in this case.
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Unknown userMember
@tyme
Yes, I have no option but to use one because I am not meeting others in any other way (I dont want to hear someone say, "well you need to meet someone another way", because it is the most meaningless phrase ever concocted by humanity. HOW HOW HOW HOW HOW HOW HOW?).
I have said this before, I dont get any feedback at all so I dont know and if I did know maybe I could do something about it.
I think I must be the most ugliest piece of vermin that has ever been sighted. Mirrors crack and break at the sight of me. I have an incredibly boring and disgusting personality in which others must become repulsed by the very sight of me.
I must be horrendous to look at and I deeply apologise. I hate myself so much ijdcnoijdnijdnciedonednxcdefhnxchdenehdjnxdejn xdhjen jdefhen djhc fnjhcf
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Unknown userMember
@tyme
I wish voluntary euthanasia was legal, its the only way to save me from this hell that I call my life.
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tymeModerator
To be honest, is the underlying issue relationships or depression @Former-Member ?
From your posts, I'm not sure it is relationships.
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Unknown userMember
@tyme I think its probably both. Bear in mind, this stuff is hard to process particularly when you put in the amount of effort that I have put in. It absolutely sucks that I havent got anything out of this at all.
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tymeModerator
Hey @Former-Member , How are you going today?
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Unknown userMember
@tyme
Miserable, just surviving. I am one day closer to death
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tymeModerator
We're in a similar boat @Former-Member . I'm one day closer to death too!
Comeon @Former-Member , allow yourself to be loved and cared for mate. But you gotta love yourself first.
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Unknown userMember
@tyme I am trying, it is hard when you have put in all this effort.
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Unknown userMember
Is it worth it? Is life worth it?
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