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Saying goodbye to pop

Saying goodbye to pop

Today was hard. Pop is weak. And thin.

He will be leaving us.

We just dunno when.

My hearts breaks and aches.

For him and for nan

I just don't want him to suffer

The thought if him being in that place on his when he'd rather be next to nan in bed asleep and she wants that too.... it's so hard

Maybe this is my small burden to carry while nan carries hers and Pop his.

I felt like a kid again today. All I wanted to do was share the vanilla slide with my pop. But we couldn't.

Whatever part of me was hurt by that is a part of me that came out today. But what can I do. Nothing much. It isn't fair. I know that but I feel it and feeling it is different.

It will be hard.

But the love is what gets us by.

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Onya Apple @Aplleblossom

Thanks for your kind words as always

And your counsel

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Thank you @MDT

Sitting with you my friend ❤️

It has been 11 weeks now since my mum passed away

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Morning @MDT

Just checking in with you to see how are you holding up. Its always a weird time, life is kinda put on hold as you wait. Just to let you know that we are all thinking of you at this time.....Asgard

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@MDT The Sun is a traitor. When the person is so significant to your life, is no longer there. The Sun is traitor and it should not be allowed to rise the next day.

G

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Hi all

This Saturday we will say goodbye

Found out tonight

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Hey @MDT How are you feeling about Saturday?

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Dunno tbh @Glisten

Wrote about it today. Not too comprehensively or comprehensible either.
But it helps.
Didn't publish anything. At least not yet.

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@PeppyPatti
@Jacques as well
Apologies forgot to tag you last week

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@oceangirl as well

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im so sorry to hear of your loss @MDT losing our family leaves a big hole in our hearts, i lost all my grandparents by the time i was 9. i never got to know them, only memories are what mum and dad told me through the years.

spend time with you pop and make sure you gain knowledge from him. for once he is gone so is his wisdom.

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