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I’ll be spending some time away from the forums since I’m not doing so good, no safety concerns, but I think I’m just simply too much for everyone here on the forums. My emotions are too much. May brain is too much. I don’t want to drown people in my pain, everyone is better off with me off the forums. I hope our paths cross again. Will say goodbye and wish you all the best. Sorry for being a pain
Should I tell my parents to stop looking? I don’t think it’s fair to waste anyone’s time if I’m best suited for a sexless relationships, most guys would want it from me. I can’t allow myself to feel like I’m object again. Not sure where the emotions came from, I feel so emotional all of a sudden, I thought I released the tension in my body, now I’m teary
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tymeModerator
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Hearing you @creative_writer .
Do what you feel is right. We will support you.
I encourage you to focus on the here and now.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@tyme I feel like an object. I can’t seem to focus on the here and now. I’m not even sure what’s up with my emotions, it happened all of a sudden
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Hi @creative_writer
Hoping things are going ok for you today
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@Snowie I’m drained. I hope your are doing okay 💖
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Can you do some self care @creative_writer or maybe something nice for yourself?
Even if it's just curling up in bed, or having a cuppa.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@Snowie brain is on hyper processing mode. I don’t understand things and maybe I’m jumping too ahead of myself. I’m doing a hydrating face mask right now to give my skin some love
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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I'm feeling pretty irritated, even relaxing binaural soundtracks are annoying me right now , I'm trying to breathe and ground myself but that isn't helping either
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Ohhh a face mask sounds nice @creative_writer
It's easy to jump ahead of ourselves at times.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@Snowie it is, but my mind won’t stop today, stuck in self deprecating thoughts that are not rational
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