Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

ohhhh @Former-Member how are you going my friend xx

and how is Mr @Former-Member xxxx

mr shaz cooked dinner last night

today we did 4 hours gardening at mum`s and she wants us to do it regularly from now on xx

found out i have "leopard Lily " growing in my garden , mum wants some

and mr shaz said to replant the seeds so we can get more

we did lots of blood tests last week

so go a few more tests this week

mum`s arm wound is in her 11 week , they are thinking of burning the top of the wound again , mum does not want to do it again

@Owlunar, @outlander , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Adge , @Determined @Smc , @eth , @Faith-and-Hope

Dear @Shaz51 ... you have been very quiet on this lately, and I have been concerned about your health. I have seen you around some other threads, offering your usual quiet support to members. But you just havent been your usual beautiful self. And well ... I'm worried about you. 🤗

Wondering how your Mum is getting along ... that infection must surely be clearing up by now? And Mr Shaz ... is he becoming more agreeable to the prospect of semi-retirement in the near future?

Any results yet from your blood and tissue testing for kidney donor compatability?

How are all the extended family, step-family?

I notice you have been saying that you need to drink plenty of water for your kidney. Of course drinking plenty of water is good for all sorts of reasons in general. But once people start on kidney dialysis for renal failure ... fluids need to be severely limited between dialysis treatments. So if you do need to commence dialysis in future, that might take some getting used to I imagine.

Anyway, like @Former-Member , I am just checking in with you.

Sending love and hugs your way.

Sherry 💕🤗

Oh ... oops! I was in the process of compiling my post to you, got interrupted and then by the time I finally posted, you had already gotten a post in before me. @Shaz51 Please ignore my previous post, I think you have covered most things I was asking. Sorry about that. Thanks for the update.

Sherry 💕

Hugs from me too @Shaz51 and @Former-Member

hey my wonderful sister @Former-Member

i love you asking me as it makes me feel someone is listening and is caring , and I know it is you xoxo

sending you lots of tender hugs with what you are voping with

we both need a hugs and love at this time

more tests for mr shaz on wednesday

need to make a appt to get the results of the blood tests

my cousin has asked me what tests she needs to do to give me her kidney

and m mum has said i can have her`s too

thank you @eth and hugs to you too my awesome friend

soo much going on at the moment

my second mum @Owlunar , said mr shaz will cope in his own way , but it is still hard xxx

Hey @Shaz51

It seems as if you are being showered with kidneys right now - something has to fit - how great

Your poor Mum and the wound on her arm - I can't really tell how serious it is but if your Mum could get by without having it cauterized again that would be the best for her - I'm sure you feel that way too

I am so sorry - that has to be tough for you - you want the best for her but she is so tired

And you are right about Mr Shaz - he will cope in his own way even if he has to go to bed a lot to manage it - I hear you

Wishing you the best - and Mr Shaz and Your Mum and Poor Little Kidney

Sending hugs and best wishes

Dec

ah ha my second mum @Owlunar , I love you soo much xoxo

yes one step at a time here

mr shaz next appt is wednesday

find out the results next week , fingers crossed

i know to stop the spah infecion would be good xx

strange people look at me and say " but you are ok "

Keeping up with posts @Shaz51 am not so good at hitting the support button

sending you hugs @Former-Member , are you still at your sister`s xx

having a nice big cup of coffee made by mr shaz @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @eth , @outlander , @Adge , @Bunniekins