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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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@Determined, how do you pick a happy biker out of a crowd?

By the insects stuck in their teeth! 😄

But yeah, I've spent a lot of time pillion with Hubby in years past, and would love to get his bike on the road again. As long as the weather's favourable, it's a great way to travel. But I do also have memories of steaming in leathers during summer, and coming home from a nighttime trip that was colder than expected, so cold that we had to warm up before we started shivering. That one was pushing a wee bit too far. Hot chockies and raisin toast as soon as we got home!

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@Shaz51 thinking of you tonight.

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thank you @outlander, @Determined, sending you hugs too

going to bed now , sorry I have not been around in forumland , will try tomorrow

Hugs @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @Smc, @Former-Member

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@Shaz51 take good care of you

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Checking in @Shaz51

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Hello @Former-Member

ah ha I seem to be getting on top of things again until next time

my cousin upset me a little when she put something on facebook but I am over that now

my mum is still in hospital , but have organised things for mum for when she gets back home but she still wants me to do everything and I think she has the idea of me being with her more -- ammmm

Mr shaz anxiety is very high , but I am going to cut back on work -- have to see what happens , he is sooo over it and wants to stop work

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@Shaz51

Pressing on against the odds.

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yep @Former-Member

my other cousin is upset with her sister who wrote it on facebook too

soo my cousin and I visited mum this afternoon and my mum is just a very postive person

got invited to go to a friend on saturday but Mr shaz does not want to go , she is having lots of people there for the afternoon

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There's always a family member that has the knack of upsetting the apple cart @Shaz51.

Lovely that mum is maintaining a positive outlook too.

Are you wanting to go to Sat afternoon function? Would you go without Mr Shaz?

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not sure if I want to go as she has stated that only her close family members will be there @Former-Member

this soo not friend has not talked to me for a year

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