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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Shaz51Senior Contributor10 Dec 2016, 11:56 am AEDT

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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Unknown userMember08 Nov 2018, 9:22 pm AEDT

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Perhaps a good afternoon to be otherwise occupied @Shaz51.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor08 Nov 2018, 9:31 pm AEDT

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

yes , what is that saying " when in Doubt _______"

@Former-Member, I have plenty to do and also doing something for me might be in order xx

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Unknown userMember08 Nov 2018, 9:39 pm AEDT

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Doing something for you, my oath @Shaz51 putting in a vote that you do something just a little bit indulgent Shazzle Dazzle; looking forward to a full report 😀.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor08 Nov 2018, 9:44 pm AEDT

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

my oath @Shaz51 putting in a vote that you do something just a little bit indulgent Shazzle Dazzle; looking forward to a full report 😀.

Ha ha @Former-Member, any suggestion my friend

I am off to bed and think about that question and see what suggestion you might have for me in the morning

@outlander, @Determined, @Smc, @Faith-and-Hope, @soul, @Adge, @Former-Member,

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Nov 2018, 9:47 pm AEDT

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

goodnight @Shaz51 sleep well

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AdgeSenior Contributor08 Nov 2018, 10:11 pm AEDT

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How about a foot spa (bath) with smelly fragrant stuff @Shaz51

Or a massage, which helps to ease the muscle aches & pains (very relaxing)?

Adge

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Unknown userMember10 Nov 2018, 9:32 pm AEDT

Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hi @Shaz51

How are Mum & Uncle going?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor10 Nov 2018, 9:39 pm AEDT

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Hello @Former-Member

Mum is home again , took her home today

Uncle is good but will be in hospital for a couple more months

Last night I had a soak in the bath which was nice xx

today we mowed a couple of Lawns

we have lost a few mowing jobs due to a community services taking them so Mr shaz anxiety is very high and he is worried about what is going to happen