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Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness

Hello @PeppiPatty, over here my special friend xx

Hello Everyone

Love to hear from others on the forum if you experience this

My hubby has been diagnosed with lots of things and has had MI all his life

do you find things goes ok and i start to feel confident and wanting to go forward and then everytime something always happens to upset it -- sometimes I think is it a controlling thing ?? that he wants to be in control ??

Don`t know if I am making this up , but i have that feeling ,

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but need to get surgery out the way first., that`s it @Former-Member, one step at a time my friend

mr shaz is staying on the meds at the moment , i keep telling him now that he needs them

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today Mr shaz did a job by himself this morning while i rested with this sore throat and cough @Former-Member, when he came home he said we have to replace something he broke , and he thought that I needed to get out of the house for a bit , it was raining

so we went and brought the replaced item and we had to take it to the owner and he wanted to show me things he saw on the way this morning

awww he bought lunch which was maccas for us , I love him , but my stomach did not like it at all

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I would not do it without pdoc support either @Shaz51 - stakes too high.

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totally true @Former-Member

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As Mr D has turned the corner he wants to cook again -I needed to be gracious @Shaz51

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aww @Former-Member xx

Mr shaz cooked last night , chicken breast with pesto paste on a bed of spaghetti

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Bless @Shaz51
Mr D made a curry - was not good.

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I have been offered 2k today by my ex. I feel stunned and it feels like guilt money because of son's problem. My ex wants to throw money at me as distraction and there are deeper issues about what he did with my daughter.My psychologist thinks I should accept it as he owes me 8k in Super.

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Dearest @Appleblossom

Thats a difficult decision and I would never ever want to influence what your going to do.....

pssss...take the money....you deserve it....buy some music stuff....do up the house.....spend it on something very worth while.......

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Yes, our experience is to stay on the meds...Mr G is now looking like Mr Little Buddah extrodinaire......

When we first met he was very thin and sexy but he was a very scary, scared, very ill.....

We now click.

We work hard on it though......

@Former-Member how are you ? Can you tlk about your husband ?

@Shaz51 my special friend......sorry about weight gain on your husband but the meds are so worth it....he supports you does'nt he ?

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