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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

That's so good that you called Lifeline @Sunnyside226 and well done at taking the step to reach out when you needed to! ❤️ Please continue to call them when you need to and stay connected on the Forums too.

Kids will be kids huh, and I'm sure you will do what's best for their lunch. Maybe have something yourself too 🙂

Good luck, going to the shops and don't be afraid to ask questions, I'm sure it happens a lot.

You know there is a pattern going on with you and you keep having thoughts that you can't get through the day, and you do get through. Think about the things that you did that got you through in the past! What do you think you do again today that you have done before?

Sitting with you today just like the other days and we will get through together!

RiverSeal ❤️

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

@RiverSeal I am pasting back and forward my heart going fast I am hiding in my room I am crying I am so exhausted from everything I feel like I am just a effort like people use me I don't want to go to the shops because that's where everyone looks at me I get called names last week I got called a breeder because I had all the kids which are not my I don't have kids of my own yet I am still a young person I feel scared to go what if something happens I need my safe house where nobody judge me that's why I am so scared about saying about my partner on here what if something happens

Yes I am having a meltdown

@RiverSeal could this be the end?

I am glad you are here today I hope you don't leave yet 😭😭 💙 I am having a full on panic attack not thinking clearly 💙

Again thankyou for being here

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Some people are cruel @Sunnyside226 and will say things about us without thinking about how it makes us feel. It does not make them right or that they are without their issues in life that are not perfect. Think about what you can control vs what you can't control in life. We can't control what other people say to us, and we can control how we react. If someone says something in passing just think they are a rude person who doesn't know what they are talking about. Or whatever comes to mind that dismisses their comment. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone either and your life is none of their business.

What do you want to say about your partner, or would you like to tell me in an email?

I don't think this is the end but if you are concerned you could contact the Nurse on Call in your local area. NURSE-ON-CALL: 1300 60 60 24 | healthdirect

I'm here to support you and please stay connect on the Forums and continue to reach out to Lifeline or other services when you need.

RiverSeal ❤️

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

@RiverSeal I'm to scared to even say things about myself or my partner because most of my life I have been bullied all my life about things like why I don't like females it's not that I don't like females it's because I don't find them attractive yes I may of did it once or twice with a female but I just didn't feel right so most of my life I have been hiding about me dating the same sex I know lots lots of people would say the same sex shouldn't be allowed or anything

I know there might be lots of females on here and I don't mean to hurt anyone or anyone's Feelings I know @RiverSeal you told me you are trans into a female I think if I had said anything in this that has upset you or any females I am very sorry

I feel so so bad to the I should off myself 😞 sorry I messed up I feel so terrible I am a bad person now everyone here will hate me for this and yes I am now crying my eyes out

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Everyone has the right to have their own sexuality without judgement and fear of other people in life. I'm sorry that you have had a hard time expressing how you identify, and I can relate as I have too with my gender identity. You can be with who you want and so can your partner and that just fine that you are together. It's also ok to experiment with other people and genders to find out who we are and not all experiences are going to be good or what we want.

You haven't said anything wrong here and I'm not offended by your comments so it's fine to share your opinion and experiences.

I'm going to send you an email to check in on you if you can please keep an eye on your inbox @Sunnyside226.

RiverSeal

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Omg @RiverSeal Taylor Swift has a new album coming out soon 😁 are you still excited???? I think I am hook on her songs now 😂

Are you on till 4? Can I ask you one question @RiverSeal ?

Do you have any more girly artist I should listen to I was listening to my partners last he likes the Spice girls in the pussycat dolls 😂😂😂 he's weird lol 😆 I don't really like them but I am on the hunt for more tho

I do feel really bad

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I didn't know Taylor Swift had a new album coming out so thanks for letting me know!! I can't wait 🙂

Please ask any question you would like to @Sunnyside226?

Try these artists and see what you think:

Dua Lipa

Miley Cyrus

Pink

Britney Spears

Kim Petras

Kylie Minogue

Stay connected with your peers on the Forums and we are here to support you.

Take care

RiverSeal

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Who's my peers? @RiverSeal the friends I don't have on here ?

My question is why did you tag me this morning?

That doesn't matter because I should be with the poor kids today I haven't really been myself around them it's almost their nap time anyways I am nothing but a horrible person

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Yes, your peers are the other people on the Forums @Sunnyside226 including your friends here.

I tagged you this morning because you requested me to for Sunday and I thought it would be good to check in on you as well today as yesterday was a tough day and the kids were coming home today.

It would be good if you spent time with the kids and I'm sure they would appreciate it if you did. The Forums are a great place to connect with like-minded people and to give and receive support. And you should also work on your relationships with people in real life too.

RiverSeal

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@RiverSeal 2 kids has fallen asleep and the other one is just playing out of the room so I'm just in my room smashing things

I have friends outside of this but they are busy so it's really just me

I made one or two friends on here that I don't really talk to till I get yelled at

It's ok nothing really matters everyone leaves so I might too go me just a worthless person @RiverSeal thanks for the tag I think you're on Sunday or Saturday whenever you're on again please tag me I don't bite

I am arguing with myself 😞

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