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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@PizzaMondo the bubble tea one is Boba
The panda is called Stanley
And yes they both come with me everywhere just not the shower 🤣
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tymeModerator
I'm so so sorry to hear this @Sunnyside226 . It sounds so hard. I hear today has been so hard for you. What do you use as a stress toy?
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PizzaMondoSenior Contributor
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@tyme I have 3 stress toys but I popped one when I was angry today the another one is a little fidget blue thing where you can pull it apart and build it again I don't know the names
Are you still on your holidays with the kids?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@PizzaMondo no I haven't washed my yet my partner almost washed one and I said don't you dare wash him 😂😂 nobody touched my squishmallows
I am going out of my head now I will still reply I may just say things differently now
You're a cool person @PizzaMondo
I am going to dad soon it's not going to be pretty 😭💔
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PizzaMondoSenior Contributor
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tymeModerator
Nice @Sunnyside226 regarding the stress toys. It's good if they work for you.
I know you said you were angry today.
You know what? I had an angry day today too. I can't say my angry day was the same as your angry day, but I've said some things I regret today, and I feel bad about it.
Do you get upset with yourself for being angry?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@PizzaMondo my partner isn't here they are still working away 😭 just me
I am on eggshells right now
I don't want to do it
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PizzaMondoSenior Contributor
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Yes I did @tyme I got angry at myself and lashed out on myself and the house i am still angry I am trying not to lash out but when I see dad I will lash out and lose my cool because no matter how hard I tried to keep him here he said did it it's not fair because I lost both of my parents mum was the week before Christmas and I only have my brother and sister but my sister is almost on her way too I only really have my partner and brother I find it hard to open up to them when I am in a dark hole and lashing out
To be honest I reath take my dad's place because he was a good guy but he had real heavy issues I think I drive him to the point where he is no longer here If I wasn't so selfish he would still be here one thing about me is I never ever take my issues or concerns to work with me once I am alone that's me out crying hurting hitting things
I am sorry for a long chat @tyme I feel bad for taking your @PizzaMondo and @tyme time away from others I am just a horrible human
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