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Sometimes I feel like I’m on top of things and don’t feel like my trauma defines me and I don’t feel so ashamed and scared. Other times I want to hide from the world and feel like a **** (I’m not going to say the word here since I don’t want to trigger anyone) 😭, I feel so ashamed that I don’t want people to know
Time for this little flutterby to log off and get some fur baby snuggles @creative_writer@tyme@Eve7
Catch you all later. Hugs to you all 💕
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Eve7Senior Contributor
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I always plant geraniums to remind myself of the good parts in life @tyme@creative_writer@Zoe7 . I'll have to search for the book as I know it's "somewhere" at home!! She has lots of good sayings.
Night, night @Zoe7 . Thank you all for letting me join in here.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@Zoe7 And @Eve7 this week was my second week, so I’m settling down too. I think adjusting to new routines takes time, particularly if you have other stuff going on in your life. We are doing the best we can 💖
I want to grow old with a sense of humour @Eve7, @Zoe7 and @tyme. Humour makes everything easier in life
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tymeModerator
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Good idea @creative_writer Since I can't even grow succulents (or keep them alive), I may as grow humour... why not?
Good night @Zoe7 . Thanks! Catchya another time.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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Goodnight @Zoe7, I hope you get lots of snuggles and rest tonight 💖
@Eve7, I love how you plant geraniums to remind you of the good parts of life. They also smell so nice. I have my good old geranium essential oil in my box of oils. I should clean out my diffuser and put it on
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Eve7Senior Contributor
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Have you tried geraniums @tyme ? They are pretty hardy.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@tyme, make sure you water humour and give it’s dose of water everyday. I’m sure it’ll grow bigger than my tree 😂
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tymeModerator
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@Eve7 wrote:
Have you tried geraniums @tyme ? They are pretty hardy.
Lol, if I can't get a succulent to stay alive, forget about any 'hardy' flower. lol.
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tymeModerator
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I may forget the water, but it'll sure get the 'sh!t' it needs (fertilizer) @creative_writer
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tymeModerator
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I apologise if that addition about the fertilizer is a bit offensive. I can remove it. @creative_writer
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