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Oscillation between two mind sets

Oscillation between two mind sets

Sometimes I feel like I’m on top of things and don’t feel like my trauma defines me and I don’t feel so ashamed and scared. Other times I want to hide from the world and feel like a **** (I’m not going to say the word here since I don’t want to trigger anyone) 😭, I feel so ashamed that I don’t want people to know

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Can you engage in any self-soothing techniques right now? @creative_writer

Hope you are okay too @Acanthiza

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I am OK thanks @tyme , trying not to think about certain things... feeling a bit hopeless but on the whole I can't complain. Minor blips really in the scheme of things. How are you going?

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I'm pretty much along the same lines as you... @Acanthiza Those minor 'blips' along the way, but really, I can't complain too much on a whole 🙂

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@Jynx, I hope you sleep well tonight 💖🫂

@Acanthiza, I think being shut down time and time again played a role in why I try to suppress emotions. The thing about emotional suppression is that it only makes emotions grow stronger in the long run.

@tyme, I put some chilled skincare on my face. It’s been a very hot day. I will also be praying before I sleep

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@Acanthiza 💖🫂, I hope the blip eases for you

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Yep @creative_writer repression is typically not a good idea, but so many difficulties in overcoming it... well I suppose we are all struggling along together here. I am going to trundle off to bed now, wishing you a calm and peaceful night. And you too @tyme hope it is a lovely evening where you are.

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Oh yes! I should've thought of that earlier and put my lotion in the fridge! @creative_writer

Anyway, rest up. We can chat check-in again tomorrow to see how things are.

Sweet sleep @Acanthiza

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I just finished praying, I’m going to go to sleep. Goodnight @Acanthiza and @tyme, I hope you both sleep well 💖🫂. Time has taught me repression never ends well, yet, I still do it by habit. Maybe habits aren’t always easy to break.

@tyme, I love chilled skincare, it can soothe sensitive skin

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My body feels uncomfortable. My heart keeps breaking 😢

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Is having a migraine and increasing agitation a good enough excuse to make a bad decision?
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