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creative_writerSenior Contributor
Sometimes I feel like I’m on top of things and don’t feel like my trauma defines me and I don’t feel so ashamed and scared. Other times I want to hide from the world and feel like a **** (I’m not going to say the word here since I don’t want to trigger anyone) 😭, I feel so ashamed that I don’t want people to know
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JynxModerator
Totally get you @creative_writer - can be hard to put a finger on but our instincts are usually pretty spot on and if somewhere doesn't feel safe, our bodies will tell us.
I am off for tonight and won't be back till early Jan! So I just wanted to wish you a jolly holi(day) and send a big pile of warm hugs. Hope your silly season is exactly what you need it to be. I'll catch you next year darlin! Thanks for the wonderful chats, as always 😊💜
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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tymeModerator
Hey @creative_writer ,
I'm sorry to hear things are so icky today. It sounds like the pain is so real. I hope things improve soon.
I've been reading about your placement and everything. I hope people will understand your needs and what works for you.
Cheers, tyme
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MelbcoffeesnobSenior Contributor
Heya @creative_writer
Sounds like you're not having a good night so far? Sorry to hear that.
Got much on for the rest of the evening?
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
@tymeand @Melbcoffeesnob I watched some TV for a bit and had dinner to distract myself. Still feeling icky, might have to wait for it to pass. I just took a shower this afternoon, and still feel icky and gross. Another shower isn’t going to help wash away this contamination
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Sending you a whole bunch of love @creative_writer ❤️❤️❤️
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Very tired @creative_writer but once Christmas is over I can get in that rest.
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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