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Far and Away

Far and Away

Hi @Former-Member .... 😊

You wrote:

Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, how's your adventure going? Is there a particular thread your putting updates? Jetlag takes about a week to settle I'm told, and I'm sure there's son Celtic wisdom to get over your post viral fatigue How's WH coping with his obcessive routines while travelling? A challenge I would think 😕 Hope this is a time yo rekindle some first love maybe.
Any good churches to visit there? Did you go this morning? Love ancient architecture and history. Churches are great for it. Hugz xox

Hadn't thought to start a new thread ....

In transit again today and have to go again now .... found a brief moment with wifi .... will catch you later and answer the above.

Hi to everyone else .... 👋🏽💗💕

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@Zoe7 @Sans911 @Faith-and-Hope

Zoe I responded to your post, but my response is now gone. Did I say something wrong? I will wait for email, before I try again. 😢 I'm sorry if I said anything out of order, or upsetting.

Sherry

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@Former-Member @Sans911 I know how much I love connecting with my friends here - and that is exactly what I see you all as - so it is incredibly hard for me to be feeling like I can't keep doing this. What was said has really floored me - and for it to come from where it did makes me feel worthless. I do not know how to do this right now.

@Former-Member There was nothing in that post of yours that I could see breached guidelines at all Hon. It was a lovely worded, thoughtful and fully supportive post

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Hi @Zoe7

Whatever you decide I will support your decision. Many people here adore and love you very much, and you hold a special place in this forum family/community. What I am trying to say is you have many supporters here.

You're enough, and you have plenty of inight, and have great understanding of people and relating to others. For example your work- your work provides important insight too. You have many wonderful qualties perception, awarness and this all comes from a deep understanding and insight. I really enjoy reading your posts and the way you talk to others with such clarity and honesty.

I would like to do it alone too zoe and I do understand why you're like this and this comes from your experiences and that shaped your thinking. I too have trust issues but I am working on it. I too want people in my life but I am scared to get hurt but I do know there are many good people out there. Please be gentle with yourself- you're enough.

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Hi @Zoe7 and @Former-Member,

I removed the post, for now, just to err on the side of caution. For this reason, please check your emails @Former-Member for the details around this.

Please don't apologise, @Former-Member - I am just trying to be extra mindful of all potential forum users.

Kindest,

Amour_Et_Psyché

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Hi @Zoe7 @Former-Member @Sans911 @oceangirl @Former-Member ..... I have just checked back in and it feels like I have missed something ...... going looking now ...... 😕

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You're very vulnerable right now @Zoe7 and more sensitive to others criticisms. Can you try some of your dbt skills to cope? Like pros and cons? Radical acceptance?

Have these comments about worth & insight come from one person? Is that person important to you? Why does their opinion of you matter so much @Zoe7. Have you asked yourself these questions at all?

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I give up @Former-Member I can't see why that was removed and it just adds to my sense of despair and self-doubt tonight that I cannot see any reason for it

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I can't go into details here about who it was @Sans911 but yes it matters!

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Sitting with you @Zoe7 ....

Are these the feelings you have had across the last week still bubbling up to the surface, or has something else been said this evening ?

It can be upsetting when a post is removed and it’s not clear why. If @Former-Member has a chance to check the check-in email, it might be as simple as changing a word or phrase ..... let’s try to pause the moment for a little while and see if it sorts out ?

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It was in my post to you on the page before this @Faith-and-Hope

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