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Just checking in.

Just checking in.

I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.

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Oh wow @Queenie! That's awesome and not far away at all. Super happy for you that you've been able to keep at it. I know it's been a struggle at times and getting this far shows how much determination and resilience you have.

Big woohoo!

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Hey @Queenie, just wanted to swing by and say well done. Shows how much determination you have

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It is great news that you have stuck to the course and looing forward to graduation soon @Queenie WTG you

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Go @Queenie ! Go @Queenie 🤗💜

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Hi @CheerBear , @Zoe7

I had a very strange weekend which ended up ok. I had a big aha moment on Friday night followed by a collapse on Saturday and a pulling myself together Sunday. I think the aha moment is hopefully a turning point for some things. Big shout out to @Former-Member for helping get to the aha moment on Friday 💜🤗.

Like @Zoe7 I finally managed to go through some boxes and throw things out. Spent yesterday sorting out my bedroom, finally made my Ikea unit I got for Christmas :face_with_rolling_eyes:. Manage to even file paper work (from up to 5 years ago 😯).

i have a busy week with appointments too. Hoping your interview and appointments go well @CheerBear . @Zoe7 I hope your week goes well too. It’s so great that you are ticking not just the days but weeks off now. 🤗💜

@Exoplanet I miss you when you are not around. I don’t tag much but I love reading about your adventures...the good, the bad and the hairy ones 🤗💜 🐕

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Hey @Teej - tricky around here without notifications!

Aha moments are good (once any post aha moment collapse has passed). I hope it is that turning point that sounds like it might help you. Woohoo for the IKEA unit and filing too 👍 I am in need of sorting through my room with paperwork, clothes, kids stuff, cat stuff etc. soon too. It's going to be a big job as I've left it a while 😏

Hope your appointments go well this week too ❤

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Hi @Teej @CheerBear I had a pretty ordinary day today - didn't feel right all day. As you can imagine I am glad to be home. I got through the day and even got some work done after school - so that is a bonus. I did manage to get everything done I was expected to do or that I wanted to do but kept myself pretty much hidden away at recess and lunch.

I am planning on another early night so this day is over quickly - just one of those days!

@Teej I love that you had one of those aha moments and despite you crashing on Saturday you still pulled yourself back up - that is progress Hon

@CheerBear Got a message from friend today - a smiley face lol - that was it. I suppose it is something. I haven't sent anything back as yet but will do that soon. I am very much not caring too much right now but will let you know if I have any further contact tonight. Hope you have had a good day - will catch up with how you are going later - need to organise dinner soon.

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Hey @Zoe7. I read that you hurt yourself this morning in a fall - was that part of the not feeling right? Go you on getting through the day even though it sounds like it was long.

My reaction to friends smiley face was a big grrr. How do you feel about getting that after not hearing much for a while? I don't know how I'd reply to that. Probably with something completely random like "🎄🎲🍡🐉😶" hoping he would spend some scratching head time wondering how to reply back 😉

I had a great day today with Big. We spent most of the day shopping - something I don't do well at all but they enjoy and I loved the time we had together. We did lunch and tried on clothes, both coming out with new shoes (heels which is also something I don't do). I wondered if fancy shoes was a sign I was growing up until I spotted some pj pants with rainbow clouds and a top with pink monkeys on it that I had to have 😝😆 Big is getting so big and has grown up so much in the last six months. The three of us here tonight went on a bike/scooter ride together this afternoon too which the littler one particularly enjoyed 😊

Typing this really quietly as I'm scared I'll jinx it if I say it too loud - I'm feeling pretty good all around at the moment 🙂

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lol Hope you didn't jinx it @CheerBear It is great that you are feeling good all around - might be the new jammies hahaha.

It sounds like you had a wonderful day with Big - they certainly grow up quickly

I sent a simple 'How are you doing' back ...he came back with 'thinking about you a lot' followed by 'very busy' - the finance has come through for his house so it will be settled soon. He asked me around for dinner tomorrow night but I am too busy to even think about it this week and honestly don't think I would be good company anyway. A bit flat tonight ...have been all day but I did get through it so that is something. I definitely wasn't my usual smiley self today at work so stayed away from people as much as I could - didn't feel at all like socialising. Hopefully I will pick myself up over the next couple of days and be better when I return on Thursday. I was very tired this morning despite having just over 10 hours sleep - hope I am not coming down with something 'cos I haven't slept that long for quite some time or felt this flat - maybe it is just one of those down days that I need to get through as well - time will tell I suppose. Definitelly going to bed early tonight - already had night meds.

That is enough of my downer mood for now lol - more interested in your super good mood - I want some of that tonight

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Definitely the new jammies @Zoe7 😆 There are a few good things going on and some not-good things that have stopped going on that could be behind it too 🤔😁 I think what was happening with my friend situation was bigger than I thought it was at the time. I feel like I can breathe better and I didn't really even realise I wasn't feeling so much that way as often as I was (that makes more sense in my head!)

Big hugs for your flat, down-ness. I wonder whether these kinds of days would feel even bluer now you're having more of the better kinds of days? (again that made more sense in my head than from my typing fingers). Hope you're not coming down with anything. The weather might not be helping with that. I'm waiting for a round of colds and sniffles to hit now its colder.

It's nice that friend invited you around maybe, but it is great to hear you are doing what is right for you, like you've done this whole time.

I hope you sleep well tonight and wake up tomorrow feeling better ❤
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