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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
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TeejSenior Contributor
I’m so sorry about your friend moving @CheerBear. Just quietly that sucks lots. I understand how hard it must be for you in your current situation. Depending on what you choose it might be a good distraction for everyone too, you never know.
I hope you get to let go of some of it tonight. I know a few people who are screaming at 2018 to rack off. I’m thinking you’ve probably thinking the same.
Take good care of you and I’ll be having my fingers crossed that there will be no decisions to be made (if that’s what you’re hoping for).
💜🤗
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
Sending love and hugs and understanding, @CheerBear. I've been where you are just now. The decision is never easy. I made my choice but it was just as close to going the other way. Whatever you decide when it comes to that moment, will be the right decision for you. I have no regrets about my personal decision. I believe you will feel the same either way, when life shows the course it will take for you, and you have had time to process the bigness of the experience. Feeling so much for you with this. 
p.s. @Teej posted this earlier too. But in my book there are never too many furry hugs.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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TeejSenior Contributor
Bugger @CheerBear with the three positives. You’d think one would be just a bit wonky to throw some doubt 😉.
I understand your writing and running away posts now. Please know it’s always ok to write hard stuff if it helps YOU. I also get a problem shared is a problem halved (ok that is my stretch).
one step at a time working through what is right for you and I know things will be ok. Onwards and upwards (my latest affirmation, hoping it spreads)
loads of peaceful hugs to rest tonight. 💜🤗 (smiling hug at feeling honoured that you trusted us with this) 💜 to send our love and best wishes.
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
@CheerBear, furry companions tonight sound good, or just curling up with your own nurturing spirit is good as well. Hope you rest well tonight. It's been a very big day and your body deserves all the kindness possible. Love to you once again. ox
@Teej, hope you sleep well too. ox
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TeejSenior Contributor
Sleep well @Mazarita. (When it comes for you). 💜🤗
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
Good morning, @CheerBear. Thinking of you on waking this late night/ early morning. Here if you are up and feel like chatting. Otherwise, sending more hugs and love and hope for a clear day.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
@CheerBear, sorry for the break between posts. Got distracted longer than expected writing an email to a collaborator in a different time zone.
I have had about three and a half hours of mostly steady sleep. So glad you were able to get a few good hours with furry friend.
How are you feeling this morning? What's happening for you today?
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