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@Shaz51

My cat does that too. Most times I just make the bed over the top of her and she finds her way out when she is ready. Sometimes it's a battle between her and Toby. He can't get onto the bed without help (he's not a big jumper - his legs are too short) so he runs round and round barking at the cat. It takes forever to make the bed when they are both there together!!!!!

What upset you this morning sis?

Ha ha @Zoe7, that is soo adorable xx

I have soo many funny stories like that , at one place they have 2 big dogs and they laid there while I vaccuum , so you have to vacuum around them ha ha

This morning my sister in law rang up and was talking to me and then she wanted to talk to her brother and she was telling him that she will put on a birthday lunch for him which is his birthday is coming up

why didn`t she asked me? , did i have anything planned ? , who am I ? i said and hubby said , you know what she is like , she always does it , why get upset -

Now , I am ok , I am letting her do it

@Shaz51 I sometimes have to vaccuum around Toby too - but he is so little I really don't miss much LOL.

He growls and tries to eat the end of the hose when I take the vaccuum head off to get into the corners but after I suck up his ears a few times (not really - just touch them) he will back off.

That is very impolite of your sister in law - would make me feel quite mad and upset also. My Mum will often do similar things with my sister and then say "didn't I tell/ask you". I know they have a close realtionship but just being asked is ALL I ask for! And she wonders why I get annoyed with her!

Seems like you have done a great job in 'letting it go' and 'going with the flow'

I'm going to try and do a little more gardening for a while - until I get too hot and tired.

Hope the rest of your day is awesome for you

@Shaz51

oh you have inlaws like that too?

thought it must be moi only.

we are mere store dummies that they cart around with them. my first thought was to write blowup doll but thought better not laugh.

we are robotic so we respond but do not demand.

we fit in with all of their happy little families because we wear a permanent robotic smile.

i have a copy of instructions i could list but as you know i write large volumes.

Hello @Former-Member

you can write to me lots @Former-Member, i like your messages xx

and Yes i have inlaws like that too?

and also have an aunty like that too

Hi @Shaz51@Former-Member@Zoe7@Faith-and-Hope@utopia@Decadian @Former-Member

I went to see my friend and literally jumped into her swimming pool. It was so nice. I stayed about 2 hours and then hubby picked me up. It was nice just the two of us catching up and cooling down.

Since I got home about 4pm there has been this constant loud music, boom, boom type of thing from a house across the road but a few doors down. I can hear their loud music from upstairs our house with all doors and windows shut and the air cond and watching tv. That's how loud it is!!!!

I decided to call the police and ask what can we do. They said there was no time restriction anymore, that it had to be 'reasonable sound'. So I told them its been going on since 10am this morning and it's the same house that i have rung up before with music ALL night until 7am.!!!

I happened to go outside and the police car drove past, didn't stop and can you believe the music is still going as loud as before.

It is doing my head in because my anxiety is getting worse by the minute with this thumping pounding music.

These people have no respect, i don't mind music but not this loud. Looks like another call to the police a bit later if it doesn't stop.

I am home alone now, just me and Jersey. Hubby and boys went to a car show so they'll be home late tonight, daughter has just left to her boyfriend's house.

I need to keep busy otherwise I know what could happen.

Hope everyone is good today and coping well with the heat (down in Vic)